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coutersy is always a helpful thing 16/9/2004
hi all out there this is pantyman32 this is to all you ladies
out there in fbookhookups.com land all I ask to simply say no
and tried not to be ruthless in the process we all got skelitons
in our closests just imagined this when you were considered
a little angel in your parents eyes look at yourself now
it is a good thing i dont have a
cause i wont consider her to be an angel. So keep those ...
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Re: Calling Barbie and Ken....maybe? 16/9/2004
The main purpose of being on this site is to hook up with people
who are desirable to us. But there are only a remote few whose
appearance on their profile match their appearance in
person (if you’re lucky to actually meet them). I have heard
stories from friends and fellow members here say that when
they actually get to meet the people they chat with in person,
only a few people's ...
0 Comentarios, 2 Vistas,
32 Votos
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saying "no thanks" shouldn't make you feel bad 15/9/2004
Ok..so the swinging scene itself yes is very exciting and
once a couple decides to "take the plunge" in
inviting another person or persons into thier bed alot
of them i guess rush it..when in reality everyone has a prefrence
(admit it or not) thats is not a bad thing being picky and
knowing what you and your partner want and don't want.
The swinging scene itself is very laid back and ...
0 Comentarios, 2 Vistas,
25 Votos
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No Thanks 11/9/2004
I would like woman to say no thanks if they are not interested.
If a woman says shes not interested I know to look elsewhere.
0 Comentarios, 6 Vistas,
27 Votos
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sorry,I step on your toes. 9/9/2004
It was a far away place across a ugly cement bridge, sober
and looking for adventure.Probably, young and stupid
too.Entering a house filled with cheer and beer. O my.Wandering
around with no direction finding nobody but men in rooms
that looked like they were cleaned by women. Stumbling
upon a beautiful bedroom with a bed that was just right!
When awoken I was startled to see one of those ...
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29 Votos
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Re Has this ever happened... 9/9/2004
What a loser!!!
<br>
Just in case there is ANY doubt who I am talkin about, its
YOU dude. A classy guy would have kept the BASIC date, while
turning down any intimacy and NOT alluding to the possibility
of a future.
<br>
The ONLY thing about the situation that makes me happy....?
<br>
A five word saying that equals life out: "WHAT GOES
AROUND COMES AROUND" ...
0 Comentarios, 16 Vistas,
6 Votos
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Re: Question for the guys. 6/9/2004
Yes. She wasn’t my type on the personal level and also wasn’t
attractive to me physically.
p.s. she smelled like I was in a barn
0 Comentarios, 14 Vistas,
13 Votos
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Re: Why? 6/9/2004
As with any personal ad site, when you send an inquiry to
someone, you have to expect that sometimes you may not get
a reply. There are various reasons for the non-reply:
<br>
Ø Member doesn’t wish to reply because of not being interested
in responding;
Ø Member doesn’t frequent the site enough than most members
to view messages/winks, thus taking longer than ...
0 Comentarios, 6 Vistas,
24 Votos
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Re: I told him I would be his sex-slave 6/9/2004
Sinful,
Ask yourself, “What does he want?” Do you have those attributes?
If not, then whatever you do probably will not help. If your
still want him, find out what he wants. Get him to pursue
you. You could pursue him, try to make him realize that you
are worth having, in his eyes, or go about your business
as if it were his loss. It probably is his loss anyhow. Move
on and ...
0 Comentarios, 8 Vistas,
21 Votos
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%: No need for no thanks, thanks but no thanks 28/8/2004
You hit the head on the nail!!!
<br>
If they do not respond to you and you meet most (if not all)
of their requirements - THEY ARE NOT WORTH KNOWING!
<br>
I have no problem with not a 5 star match. I have no problem
with "not meeting my other requirements".
I have no problem with ignoring "shotguns",
"let's fuck" or other short, insensitive,
abusive, or otherwise ...
0 Comentarios, 4 Vistas,
48 Votos
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No Thank you 27/8/2004
This article category sure fits.
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I was at a bar a few months back with some friends, having
a good time when I notice this really hot lady sitting by
herself. She was in the early thirties I would say. after
about 45 mins the band started and I though that I would ask
this lady if she would like to dance. Told my buds what I was
up to and started to approch the table where ...
0 Comentarios, 8 Vistas,
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No Need for No Thanks. Thanks, but No Thanks 25/8/2004
No news IS good news, and while many good people still believe
in being courteous to others and expecting like treatment
in return, I've learned not to take the impersonal
impersonally. It's not so very different here from
a construction worker who may 'cat call' women
who walk by the site where he's working. 199 out of 200
will ignore him, but there's always that one who's
ready to ...
0 Comentarios, 3 Vistas,
33 Votos
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Is it so hard? 25/8/2004
Saying no thanks is great, but even saying fuck off you creep
me out is better to me than no response.
<br>
whadda ya say?
0 Comentarios, 17 Vistas,
19 Votos
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... and receiving a "No Thanks" 21/8/2004
Many people - especially many women here - have abandoned
extending a polite "Thanks, but no thanks"
approach. Many started out with good intentions. But they've
found that offering this polite response can often be more
hassle than it's worth.
<br>
Some of the contacts they've rejected get all needy.
Instead of accepting that the person they first approached
was not interested, ...
0 Comentarios, 31 Vistas,
41 Votos
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No means no 19/8/2004
Hello, people out here are sending mixed signals. So let
me clear this up. When you say no thank you to someone shake
your head in the approiate direction.Do not nod up and down
and say no.This only confuses people.Say no be ferm and
rembember your mannors. Thank you.
0 Comentarios, 25 Vistas,
30 Votos
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I know the line to use! 17/8/2004
I think there is a lot of lack of responce because we don't
know what to say. I mean really, does anyone want to hear
the truth, that they're too short, or too old, or too
whatever?
<br>
Then I figured it out. "I appreciate your interest,
but no thank you." That's it, that's all.
No song and dance. No explanation.
<br>
I am now running into a new problem though, ...
0 Comentarios, 5 Vistas,
68 Votos
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%: Keep it simple 13/8/2004
Many people here will not accepct a "NO", let
alone "!!!" as an answer.
<br>
Too many of us guys email everyone. Then we respond to confirmed
lesbians with a "I can make you change your ways".
Is it any surprise that we never get any responses?
<br>
Check the compatability rating. Read the handle and title.
READ the profile. If you do not match then do not email! ...
0 Comentarios, 5 Vistas,
26 Votos
,7.02 Puntuación |
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Why? 13/8/2004
Why is it when your profile matches someones 100% on your
cupid scores.And you send then a copy of your invite.If
they are not interested then why don't they just don't
say so?
0 Comentarios, 18 Vistas,
43 Votos
,7.24 Puntuación |
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Said no 13/8/2004
I stupidly gave out my number to someone and then lost interest
and have told them I am not interested. I have had my number
for about 10 years now. I blocked his number but then he uses
pay phones etc. Any advice
0 Comentarios, 12 Vistas,
25 Votos
,5.01 Puntuación |
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She Doesn't want it anymore 12/8/2004
A few years ago, the woman I was dating decided she wanted
to try anal sex. I was all for it, as I was dieing to try her
ass out. We lubed up her vibrator with KY jelly. As I SLOWLY
pushed it, she got even more excited and asked me to turn
on the vibe. As I did that she was really getting into it.
I had it inside her and was going real easy, and she asked
me to turn up vibrator. Right after ...
0 Comentarios, 31 Vistas,
45 Votos
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It's really rather simple.. 11/8/2004
Be polite: "Thanks for your interest, but no thanks."
That should suffice. You don't have to give a reason,
you don't have to apologize. If you are not interested,
just drop an email and let the guy know. No wasted time, no
hard feelings. I'm sure men find it much less frustrating
to be told "no thanks" than to be ignored.. I
know I would.
<br>
I have had guys write ...
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50 Votos
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Read before you answer 11/8/2004
Why is it that when somenone reads your ad and sees that you
are a couple, why are they still persistant for you to answer
there email? I feel that they sould stick to whats thier
own kind unless you care to play and explore, (i.e., bi and
gay males have been emailing us) and if they would read they
would see that we are straight. Is it wishful thinking on
their part???
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33 Votos
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When swinging, remember it is just like a relationship 10/8/2004
Too many people are rude in the swinging seen . You have too
remember that everybody has feeling's , and if when
you meet someone , don't be rude with them , they are
looking for the same thing you are , someone to join them
in the alternative lifestyle. They are trying to meet someone
they can be comfortable with and have fun with at the same
time. And things like meeting with them for ...
0 Comentarios, 3 Vistas,
35 Votos
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What dont you understand? 7/8/2004
Why is it that when a man only had a pic of his dick on his page
and you finally see his face and you are no longer interested
they get offended. Dont the understand that sometimes
beauty is only Dick Deep?
0 Comentarios, 3 Vistas,
60 Votos
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Would like to just show my appreciation. 30/7/2004
I've written in the past on why certain members when
not interested, don't answer back to let you know.
I just want to thank the few of you that I have rercently invited
to meet, that were not intereted, but DID reply back to let
me know this. And did so very politely and upfront, ....like
ADULTS! Those are the ones that keep the ball moving and
let you know to keep searching just the same. ...
0 Comentarios, 10 Vistas,
68 Votos
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RE: I don't owe you SQUAT! 27/7/2004
Hey Everybody,
<br>
I think there's alot of grey area here.... On one hand,
would you find it rude if someone addressed you in some manner
and the
On the other hand, I have heard, and other person just turned on their heel and walked
away? In most peoples' book... rude to say the least.I'm sure this is
realistic, that many women on this site get upwards of 50+
emails EVERY ...
0 Comentarios, 13 Vistas,
57 Votos
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%: Blocking other users 27/7/2004
Blocking should only be done when the person can not take
"NO" for an answer, or their email was not kosher
or threatening.
<br>
I have only had to block 2 profiles in 6 months. One was a "T-gurl"
who would not accept that I was straight. The other was from
someone who could not take a "I loved your response
to my article" as anything but a come on AND an insult.
<br>
...
0 Comentarios, 3 Vistas,
48 Votos
,8.36 Puntuación |
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Big Girls (BBW) 26/7/2004
Ok First off.....I love BBWs dont get me wrong. I have encountered
women of large size though who have said they were only this
certain amount of weight and then turned around and they
are bigger. Then again pictures are worth 1000 words, they
dont answer the question of how old this person was in the
pic or was this how she looked years ago.
<br>
Why is it that most BBW get on ...
0 Comentarios, 31 Vistas,
76 Votos
,2.95 Puntuación |
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Learn to Accept Rejection 25/7/2004
I don't know if it's a common problem, but a lot
of the guys I talk to on here have a big problem with rejection.
<br>
A lot of guys beg for a "not interested" or a "no
thanks" when they email or chat with me, but I have
had so many bad experiences that I have a hard time with it.
<br>
Also, the pure number of people who email me is amazing.
I can get up to 300 emails ...
1 Comentarios, 67 Vistas,
39 Votos
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Virgin Woman First Wild! 19/7/2004
When i first met Peny she had just turn 18 and virgin!! She
had one sex experience and that was with one more woman!!
We chat for a few months from the net so she came to Athens
to meet me. All though we had exchange photos as soon as I
saw her i was shocked she was gorgeous 5 feet 2, skinny but
with HUGE breasts (she had told me that she had big breasts
but i did not ...
0 Comentarios, 61 Vistas,
47 Votos
,4.64 Puntuación |