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Allowable? Anything's allowable. Dja love him? Dja just meet him? Dja wanna see him again? Dja think he's smart enough to take some constructive criticism? Dja.. What was the question? Yeah.. do what you want to do. What do you think? 🤔 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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10/17/2019 7:46 pm |
Only constructive. Otherwise you're being a jerk.
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I know I never have and never will because you never know the circumstances you could be a reason for that Miss have that one time Kisses and licks for ever
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10/17/2019 8:24 pm |
The only circumstance I would think it's okay is if it were consensual in a a role play scenario, otherwise it's so disrespectful it's time to put your clothes and leave.
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10/17/2019 8:30 pm |
its all about communication and getting to know each others needs desires and fantasies and being open with it all with your sexual partner... is it not?
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10/17/2019 8:33 pm |
what about just plain communication between two consenting adults if its not in or if she is not ready if he cant get it up i would say understanding and patience would be the key to any problems...had guy already was too nervous to get an erection ...there was more understanding from me than sexual frustration ending in name calling ...some adults are so freaking childish and shouldnt be born with sex organs any way
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my wife has a habbt of saying these things immediately BEFORE ... so I'm sure you can imagine the proceeding events... or lack there of
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10/17/2019 8:44 pm |
Agreed!
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Two things a woman should not do wile have sex with a man. Point and laugh.
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There are too many variables to give a definitive answer. for instance, fragility of egos, length of relationship, ability to take criticism, nature of the criticism, nature of the relationship, do you want to see the person again, is it causing pain or discomfort. In general criticism, unless pain is involved might be better left until after the festivities. I am not counting advice, like faster, slower, softer, harder, etc., as criticism.    The perversity of the universe is unbounded.
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I completely agree I was about to have sex with a guy and he kept shooting me down before . I felt like I was stupid for even being there. So I took out my vibrator after and I made myself happy in front while he rolled his eyes. Shaleelee
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I haven't noticed a missing comment of mine but I did notice that one of your posts I commented on is gone. The perversity of the universe is unbounded.
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That... is one of the best lines I've read today. lol... 😂 You win! 👍 😊 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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You're right. I guess it's acceptable if he were your husband. 😶 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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but what if a derogatory remark is truthful and not some crazy embellishment  it's not what you say but how you say it. if it's a small dick, in the reverse one could say, i need a big dick. make it about YOU and not the person.
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Not really, could ruin a perfectly good thing, possible long term. everyone has their day with things, right ?
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I don't think there's a place for derogatory comments at all, never mind just during sex.
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Derogatory comments are not necessary. If there is an issue of any sort, then look for a solution. And usually the best time to discuss solutions is NOT during sex. That's a time when both parties can be feeling particularly vulnerable and not open to any type of remark that could be taken as criticism, constructive or otherwise. Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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It depends on those involved. SOME people are turned on by derogatory comments / being humiliated: "you think I'll let that tiny cock fuck me??" - "what a disgusting fat pig you are" - things like that. So if it's agreeable to all - why not? A Truly Different Place Basic Black and White, on HNW Dangerous [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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it is never right to be derogatory in a manner that is hurtful... there are SOME people who like to be humiliated within sexual context, but for this to be effective as a sexual encounter a lot of discussion would be required, what things are a turn on... which are a turn off... and when it is being done it should be out of respect and caring
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