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"I just don't understand"?
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"I just don't understand"? I have a friend, I known for many years. This guy is a big Dog! Kind of like a St. Bernard. He's messing with 4 women a time, if a lady he messes with want to move on, he's not going to lose sleep night or blink and eye. There are a few that always come running back to him. Recently there was a woman from my past. I start seeing her again. She told me about this guy she dated, it been 7 years since we got together. She talked about her ex like he had a tail, and she slander him in many ways. We went to a movie, she said, she not really fond of movies. I mentioned concerts, she said, that's not her bag either. She live to to exotic places, some of my budget. But I mentioned about road trips, and see a some sites, she said, she's ok with that. Every time we talked, I had to her. I would , hours later I might get a response. Or maybe the next . Even when I texted too. I wanted to be a good man to her, but doing all the chasing, and she's not allowing to catch her. I talked to a few women, and they told me not to anymore. If she's interested, she'll . Well, I got my answer, she' not interested! She posted a picture on , with her ex. The same Mutherfucker she talk shit about. Then a couple of later, she posted another picture on . Her a Mary J. Bliege concert. She told concert's not her bag. Maybe I should had been a no good rascal too? Same with my buddy who's a dog, women love that, I guess? why would a person go back to the same person who did them wrong? For this, I got one thing to say, and that is, "I just don't understand"?           |
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8/24/2019 1:45 pm |
Hi my friend, so true. Thx for viewing
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Not sure I understand it either. I wouldn't be in a hurry to go back to a man who didn't treat me right.  ~~Anais Nin~~
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scoupe42 replies on 8/24/2019 7:40 am: Well, it worked for the Dog! My personality it 180* is the other direction. Okay... then there is no way you can convincingly pass as a Dog. But that doesn't mean you should continue being a doormat for these women. I know it's late in the game, but try to stop being their yoyo and doormat. Work on just saying , "No" to them. Go shopping with her? ..No Watch her kids? ....No. Help her clean [the garage]...No. Drive her to the [store].... ? ....No. Listen to her talk to you about the ex or guy she's seeing now? ...No. What he [your friend the Dog] is doing, is correct. He understands women come, and women go, and usually they always come back. Why? Because he doesn't get emotionally scattered over her nonsense. He's in control. The saying really is, "Nice guys cum in the shower, alone".. "Nice guys don't get to choose the woman he wants". Nice guys are bait for battered, abused, abandoned women. When 'she' was young and hot, 'she' wouldn't look twice at the nice guy. But after decades of abusive men, and raising kids, possibly not all from the same man, she looks for the band aid nice guy to pay for everything and make life better for her now that she has let her body go to crap and she has all this baggage. .....That's the mess nice guys get themselves into. And when she feels better? She drops the nice guy and goes seeking the exciting asshole kind of guy. So of course you'll always be the nice guy, according to you, but you can learn to say , "No" to these messes, and any other woman. Learn to walk away from "Friendzone" traps. If she won't put out? Stop being her sidekick. Stop listening to her troubles, stop being her go-to-boy she goes to , to talk about her boyfriends and exs. That goes for any women who now currently have you "Friendzoned". Say , "No", and walk away.
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Well my friend some women are like that, and I think you would be much better off if you just moved her out of your life, sounds like she's kind of trouble herself. And you deserve someone so much better and someone who treats you the was you deserve to be treated..I hope you have a fantastic day my friend.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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Errrr well I'm not sure you should take Heathens Advice  ... there is a saying nice guys always come 2nd, but I don't think that's true... dating a cad might be fun for a while, but it will soon wear off,, the cheating, the lies, the coming 2nd best.... the nice guy will win out in the end, but don't be a doormat for her, she sounds like she's giving you the run around.... either accept that or move on
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Another thing... even if she does slap you, that's not a , "No".... throw her on your bed and tell her to get naked. Either way will work ... out the door, or thrown on the bed.... she'll respect you more, and she'll either have sex with you now, or another time. Your buddy, the Dog , knows that to be true.
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scoupe42 replies on 8/23/2019 9:12 pm: What up buddy, man you always have good feed back. If I do what you suggest, I'll get the shit slapped out me ! Thx for viewing and feedback. So she tries to slap you. Grab her wrist and push her out your door. She'll be back and she'll give you sex.
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Pay no mind to women when they tell you they want the nice guy or gentleman. Women only say that because they have been thrashed around or taken advantage of, but she goes back to the Dog, after she tends to her wounds with some doormat guy. They usually always do go back. Or if they don't? He's her spank material, as she plays with herself , or fucks some milk-toast guy. Women are mentally and physically seduced by the Dog, the asshole.... the guy who doesn't give a crap , the aloof dude. I suggest you listen to some [or all] of the Tom Leykis recordings on youtube. Maybe that will make you reconsider being the friendzone guy, and reconsider why you are trying so hard with women for really nothing. When women start talking about her ex, or some guy she dated, you shut her down. Stop trying so hard. You don't need to take them anywhere [no concert, no dinner, no movie] , just take her to bed. Next time a woman starts treating you like her buddy or friendzoned-standby, cover her mouth with your hand, say , "Shhhh"... unzip your pants and tell her to suck this. If she does? Great.. If she doesn't? You didn't need to be wasting your valuable time with her.
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8/23/2019 5:25 pm |
Ladies and Gentlemen, help me out! If someone done someone wrong many times. My question is, who do they go back to me????? Let me know your opinion.
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