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lilbigman8833 57M
257 posts
6/19/2019 5:57 pm

we should have met long ago I enjoy letting the lady exsplore her sexual side it can be very intence I had 1 lady I let her do as she pleased and lordy she never knew what fun it was


hornyman5650 73M

6/19/2019 6:00 pm

same luck here been looking for two years no woman yet . real bummer


GhostofH 65M
22788 posts
6/19/2019 6:24 pm

I find reading your blogs and posts very enlightening and truth be told, I can sympathize with some of your issues as you are not alone in some of your plight. I have found in the past that fbookhookups.com's sister site ALT. was a good alternative for seeking like minded kinksters, but unfortunately it too is on life support. Collar Space is another alternative for you, although I don't know if you will find that 'All in One' man for you that you are seeking. Especially locally to you, although we can all dream. I find FetLife still the best for seeking and finding like minded kinksters locally to me, and through my local network it usually brings the results I seek. Good luck in your search and I hope you find ALL that you seek.


AnewWoman 65F
273 posts
6/19/2019 6:25 pm

Oh I can see that. You can say you want the kink and to be able to explore things in a relationship, and men come flocking to your door. The problem is the men expect you to deliver the kink without any serious participation from them. They don't get it. Reading profiles here you are led to believe you can have the best crazy wild sex out there, but the reality is most will at best bring run of the mill traditional sex. Anything new is what I brought to the table after seeing it on porn. I've found more fulfilling sex with other women.


bitchkitty2017 71F

6/19/2019 6:44 pm

I tried to sign up for Harmony and it keeps telling me i am married lol I am widowed three years now ...fun and funny...


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
6/20/2019 12:47 am

Locked out of the site ?
Really ?

I definitely have to try it out !

Cheers, and good luck,my lady

P


SelflessLover068 64M

6/20/2019 3:39 am

I know all to well what you mean... It seems dating sites... Or in this case fbookhookups.com are anything but that... Real life is no different... I find it hard enough just to find someone who talks anymore... Let's hope the future brings more to our lives... And btw... They wouldn't take me either
Have a grrrrrrrrrrrreat day


GhostofH 65M
22788 posts
6/20/2019 6:01 am

Quoting: I've been on fetlife for 10 years, I host grouos, attend most events, make a yearly trio to a big kink conference in Vancouver.
But I've been told over n over to not use fet tk find partners...... so at most I can just expect nsa/anonymous kink and sex from that site.

You may be right from a female seeking male from fet. I have heard the same thing on more than one occasion, especially from a friend in Victoria.

So what is the alternative? Finding someone outside the lifestyle, getting to know them, then introducing them to your realm. Very hard to even get to step one with those in your province I hear.... *hugs*


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
6/20/2019 6:09 am

I should do a forbidden post about eHarmon!! Stay away and dont let it suck up your money. And I am in the same predicament as many of us and I totally get your frustration- it mirrors mine from a different aspect

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Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
6/20/2019 7:49 am

It's nice when you have a Swing girlfriend that you love to get naked with and still enjoy other interests. You get Kinky, but with good intentions. I hope you find your sexy Swing partner too. You are sexy!!!


Evocules 55M
1288 posts
6/23/2019 11:31 am

Sorry to hear you've hit rock bottom, sweet woman. I know the feeling, and I can thoroughly appreciate a boredom with online interaction. It's often like a child's ride in front of a grocery store: it doesn't really go anywhere.

Ah, but the moment you do get a little traction, that one little online nibble that generates some heat, then things can change quickly. About three decent men in ten years? That sounds about right. My numbers are very similar. Just think of it this way: you're really due for another right now. I want to encourage you to be patient and remain optimistic, ok?


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