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Two Strike Policy
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Two Strike Policy We get a shitload of messages on here, a good 50-60% of them are single males hundred of miles away just throwing a compliment or offering to travel. The others we get are from locals offering to meet us. Those we filter through our preferences and if they interest us we write them back and exchange contact info in order to arrange a face to face meeting. Typically the response to that is 'hell yeah' or 'I'll be there', so we go through the all motions of canceling other plans and getting ready to meet them. On a rare occasion, they will actually show up and all goes well, but far more often we will get a text the day of the meeting claiming they couldn't make it for reasons that range from 'my granny's sick' and 'I was in a car wreck' to 'I forgot about my golf game' or 'my well pump died'... as real human beings and former parents, we understand that shit happens, people have lives and real life problems to deal with and sometimes we just don't follow through on things even if we want to. When we were new to the lifestyle twenty years ago, we would wait patiently, write them back, plan for another meeting with them. That was a loooooong time ago though and after about the 50th shamming we adopted a very strict two strike policy, if you don't make it to the initial meeting, hey shit happens to everybody. If you sham us a second time however, that's it for us. At one point we had forty thousand notifications on here so we just don't have the time or energy to go through all the song and dance for folks who 'can't make it' again. If there's a moral here, it's simply don't cut the biscuits if you aren't gonna bake 'em lol. You'd be surprised how shocked and angry some these folks get when they want to know why we've suddenly lost interest in them and aren't willing to set up a third attempt to meet them. It's nothing personal, but after a second sham you've simply missed the bus with us. {=} |
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10/7/2015 8:13 am |
Insightful post
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Certainly looks like a fun bus ride, too. I think you are being more than fair. You give them a second chance, can't beat that. Yeah, 530 miles would be a long bus ride though, lol. Anyway, I was attracted by your photo, Hot Wife, and then your name. There is something about the idea being cuckold that makes my little dick twitch. Maybe it's the shame, or, maybe it's all that cleaning up  Anything done half-heartedly will net you an equivalent result. ~CH
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Would you break your own rule if you thought they were the person of your fantasies?And no i wouldnt be surprised by how shocked and angry some people get because thats how some people react when they feel theyve been wronged. if this is a policy you have, do you include it in your profile,which would be slightly better but doesnt allow for "their shit happens "the first time,"your grannys sick"the second time.People wil only see what they want to see quite often.And of course people will only cancel at the last minute,they mean to arrive and dont want to knock themselves out of the order too early if they can help it.Scenario in reverse is you accept 10 invites and none cancel and they all arrive,is this how the gang bang was invented it wa merly one person wanting a definite answer?
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I think it's great that y'all love it and have make it work for you. There is a young couple on here in a cuckold relationship that has me worried for them. Kinda makes me wish they could talk to established successful couples like you. Did a post not long after being here last. here is a link if you would like to read it. [post 3709024]  Anything done half-heartedly will net you an equivalent result. ~CH
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Very understandable policy. You have to do what's right for you. And honestly, if someone is annoyed after their second strike, they aren't annoyed for very long. They're back pretty quickly to someone else's profile to perv, and then contact, and then get cold feet. Your explanation here is more effort than is deserved for people who treat others like a commodity because the contact was made on the face-blind internet. No hostility here, lol, but also not a lot of sympathy or sleep lost. Life's too short for posers.
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