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McVelvet, assuming that we only have ourselves to think about in terms of safety, it seems to me that we should only do what we're individually comfortable with, and that no one should pressure anyone else into something they're not happy about. For me, even if I didn't need to consider others, I don't think I'd be prepared to risk my health (or anyone else's I might casually and unknowingly come into contact with) for the sake of a few relative moments of gratification, so I'd be patient and wait for things to calm down, and/or for a vaccine to come forward. To each their own I though, I guess it's a balance we all need find........ I'll be interested to read what other response you get to this question. ps - classy - motorway services, costa.......oh dear! I guess he's not a keeper then!
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I wouldn't meet at the moment, I'm trying to keep myself as self contained as possible, I don't think I've been to a shop since lockdown.. oh except a bakery and the supermarket. There are still pockets of the UK with quite high numbers of Covid... so I would play it safe. Motorway services.. Pfft! .. and I like Costa...
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8/31/2020 11:03 am |
Meeting any time can be stress filled, in these times of quarantine more so, not that I have much experience with it even in the best of times. I might be over simplifying it but meeting new people anytime follows the mantra of if it feels wrong then it is wrong, you made several very reasonable suggestions, he goes and picks someplace not only different but very much unlike them, if he is not able to see how this is not going to work for you, no matter the reason, the better left unmet. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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well the motorway services was a bad suggestion ... not much of an atmosphere to flirt with someone....
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I've been on dates these months, meeting in parks in summer and in pubs in autumn/winter that were having socially distanced sitting (most pubs were and that made me wonder why they were forced to shut down!). On staying safe, I was just keeping about a week's gap if I were to meet anyone else. It's a matter of common sense methinks depending on the circumstance. And of course, a matter of mutual trust. Being a coffee snob, Costa is certainly off-limits for me. I'd love to take you out for some great coffee if you fancy.
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You're too good for him & his cheap tastes SV, you deserve somewhere like Mark's bar (from your previous blog) or at least a Cote de Brasserie which serves excellent value food & great filter coffee too; I've had 1 meeting from here last July 2021 which was a great pleasure for us both 'tho her work schedule & weekend parent visits make another unlikely...yet; I'd def buy you a good lunch, dinner or even just coffee at Cote's or any where else your prefer that you feel comfortable meeting, big warm horny hugs Mark
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