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The Meet and Greet
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The Meet and Greet I don't normally write about these.... But, the Meet and Greet is a make or break situation. It's your first impression!! If it goes well... You see each other again. If it doesn't go well... Um, yah, that's an hour I'm never getting back. Then there's the in-between..... Did it go well? Did it not go well? Should I wait to see if he contacts me back? What if HE'S waiting for me to contact him?? Oh, fuck it. Moving along... I made plans on Monday to meet someone for coffee who I have been talking with on here. He only had a specific day he could do this, so I ended up breaking my cardinal rule of meeting. I met him immediately after work. We all know, I'm a hot mess immediately after work. My head usually hurts from not wearing glasses. My face is a sweated out mess from being contained in my own personal sauna mask for the previous 8 hours. My personality is on bitch mode from dealing with all the shit I deal with in a day. But, I did my damage control and met up. It was an in-between, like most of them end up for me. Guys are expecting slutted up ho-bags to show up for these meets.... Instead they get me. Office Girl with her sweetheart personality and nerdy glasses. Disappointing.... I talked a little about my preferences and expectations, the reason why I chose the profile photo I chose (because EVERYONE asks about that), and listened to him talk about his job, his search, and his having the flu in February. Now, I've already called it an in-between... So, here I sit, stuck in limbo, wondering just what to make of this. When we left the restaurant, he had stated "You have my number, feel free to text me." Ok... This usually means, I'm being polite, but I am not necessarily interested. Then, he ended up texting me later that night. So, I'm thinking.... Ok. Maybe he is? A little?? Maybe he's not and still being polite??? And.... this is where fuck it, moving along comes into play. In this case, I really feel like he was hoping to see the slutted up ho-bag... Even though I was coming immediately from work. In my area, I think this is the general consensus most men have about the women who are on here, that we spend each and every day all hot and bothered lusting over any man within a 50 ft radius. They forget that we are real people too, with every day lives. We do the slutting it up behind the scenes, with the right guy. |
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Hmmm..... I think it was sometime in April. It was after we had to start wearing the masks in public.
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I have a tendancy to like the "nerdy" look as well....... maybe you could post the picture again? Or give us an idea how far back? LOL
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You like the girls with nerdy glasses?  If you go back far enough in the posts, there's a pic of me in my glasses on here....
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I don't expect anything any more.... in many aspects of life. I haven't met anyone from here or SLS in years. Of course I don't try really hard anymore either. There is a lot of expectations tho... I get that.
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I don't expect anything any more.... in many aspects of life. I haven't met anyone from here or SLS in years. Of course I don't try really hard anymore either. There is a lot of expectations tho... I get that.
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You've every right to be hot and bothered after work. That's the norm, if he doesn't like it, he's not worth it. By the way...You had me at nerdy glasses  If you go back far enough in the posts, there's a pic of me in my glasses on here....
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You've every right to be hot and bothered after work. That's the norm, if he doesn't like it, he's not worth it. By the way...You had me at nerdy glasses 
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Hi secret_lade thanks for sharing your meet and greet story I have met two women "face to face" from this site Both, are wonderful the "first" meeting is always important But, sometimes, you get a second chance, because of extenuating circumstances sometimes, you don't get a second chance I believe that words count more than looks if the stars align, the conversation will lead to the next steps if not, no harm, no foul of course, there is the time element, planning, and choices not made but, that's what the box of chocolates is about too go with your gut be safe hmm Zachary Levi, Krysta Rodriguez - "First Impressions" Aaron: She's a little artsy She's hip and cool She's just like all those girls That ignored me all through school She's kinda indie and pretty hot She's a lot like all the things that I am not But that's just a first impression I could be totally wrong It't only a first impression And maybe she's a stuffy and conservative, way Uptight girl who's still a virgin Never goes past past "second base" Suppressing every single urge until she marches Down the aisle and finally ties the knot She could want a giant family Be an opera devotee Hell, even have a ph.d. Yes, that's who she could be Casey: He's a bit annoying And overdressed He's got the kind of vibe that says "look at me, I'm stressed!" Probably likes to cuddle Long walks in the park And if he likes sex bet it's only in the dark But that's just the first impression I could be totally wrong It's only a first impression 
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Hi secret_lade thanks for sharing your meet and greet story I have met two women "face to face" from this site Both, are wonderful the "first" meeting is always important But, sometimes, you get a second chance, because of extenuating circumstances sometimes, you don't get a second chance I believe that words count more than looks if the stars align, the conversation will lead to the next steps if not, no harm, no foul of course, there is the time element, planning, and choices not made but, that's what the box of chocolates is about too go with your gut be safe hmm Zachary Levi, Krysta Rodriguez - "First Impressions" Aaron: She's a little artsy She's hip and cool She's just like all those girls That ignored me all through school She's kinda indie and pretty hot She's a lot like all the things that I am not But that's just a first impression I could be totally wrong It't only a first impression And maybe she's a stuffy and conservative, way Uptight girl who's still a virgin Never goes past past "second base" Suppressing every single urge until she marches Down the aisle and finally ties the knot She could want a giant family Be an opera devotee Hell, even have a ph.d. Yes, that's who she could be Casey: He's a bit annoying And overdressed He's got the kind of vibe that says "look at me, I'm stressed!" Probably likes to cuddle Long walks in the park And if he likes sex bet it's only in the dark But that's just the first impression I could be totally wrong It's only a first impression To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Real is real... isn't it... ? Hmmm... Real, is fine with me.
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6/10/2020 4:58 pm |
If you don't mind my asking.... What are you looking for in a meet?
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I'm not expecting my meet to be promiscuous, I'm promiscuous enough for the both of us. Since we've been back to work I am way too beat to meet anyone.
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6/10/2020 3:22 pm |
I'm not expecting my meet to be promiscuous, I'm promiscuous enough for the both of us. Since we've been back to work I am way too beat to meet anyone.
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love the way you put it " slutted up ho-bag" and I have had those meetings- sometimes they drain what was left of an already drained day
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I agree with you. I once had someone show up filthy with a raggedy t-shirt on. Really??? Egads, NO!
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Some people's expectations are unreasonable. I'm a bit puzzled to be honest. If I had said to someone I was meeting that I can only do it at such and such a time, and she had said that it would be directly after work for her, I'd expect work clothes. And bearing that in mind, if the girl had gone to the extra effort of some damage control I'd be chuffed to bits that she had done that for our meeting. I'd also like to think I could work out whether the girl was ever likely to be that slutted up ho-bag (gotta get me one of them!!) Though maybe he should have worked out that before hand if that's what he's looking for, no? On the other hand, are you interested in him? That last point - surely that's your business, until it becomes his? And first brief coffee meeting is not that time!
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I've pretty much stopped my random chats on here for that reason. I don't find that interesting to me in any way, shape, or form. Once they cum, they're outta there anyway... What's the point?
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I hate meet and greets but it is the only way. The slutted up ho bag comes only if we are a match and he is not a drive by. His number of friends are not as bad as the number of action shots by different women on his profile. Not impressive. I do hate the sex chat with a stranger. Until I know him I can’t get into “ what I like”. I may be doomed. 🤦♀️
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I hate meet and greets but it is the only way. The slutted up ho bag comes only if we are a match and he is not a drive by. His number of friends are not as bad as the number of action shots by different women on his profile. Not impressive. I do hate the sex chat with a stranger. Until I know him I can’t get into “ what I like”. I may be doomed. 🤦♀️
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Some people's expectations are unreasonable. I'm a bit puzzled to be honest. If I had said to someone I was meeting that I can only do it at such and such a time, and she had said that it would be directly after work for her, I'd expect work clothes. And bearing that in mind, if the girl had gone to the extra effort of some damage control I'd be chuffed to bits that she had done that for our meeting. I'd also like to think I could work out whether the girl was ever likely to be that slutted up ho-bag (gotta get me one of them!!) Though maybe he should have worked out that before hand if that's what he's looking for, no? On the other hand, are you interested in him? That last point - surely that's your business, until it becomes his? And first brief coffee meeting is not that time!
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love the way you put it " slutted up ho-bag" and I have had those meetings- sometimes they drain what was left of an already drained day (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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One last point to ponder... how many of my readers are concerned about the number of friends a potential 'meet' has on here? As a blogger, I'm in contact with a few people that I genuinely like... If your expecting your meet to be promiscuous, doesn't that kind of come with the territory? Sigh....
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