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She doesn't like sex you say....  

secret_lade 49F
14388 posts
3/16/2021 4:00 pm
She doesn't like sex you say....


Funny, that couples profile and the profile pic of your dick resting on her tongue doesn't quite scream "sexless marriage".

Maybe it's me? Maybe I'm just reading too much into the situation....

I was contacted the first time around by a 'couple' who were looking to find a third, a woman, to play with on a semi-regular basis.

Because this isn't something I'm looking for, I had responded back and turned down the offer. I thanked them for the interest but stated I was not looking for that type of experience.

Imagine my surprise when suddenly it's the male part of the couple that is messaging me back to let me know the female part of the couple has lost her interest in sex and it has been a few years since she has played. He is looking for a FWB situation to satisfy the needs the female part no longer satisfies.

Call me crazy....

But, that didn't make the situation any better at all. If anything, the whole situation seems deceitful and underhanded now.

When asked about the 'couples' profile and profile pic, the response was.....

'This profile is about 5 years old. I just use that photo for people to see what could be.'

What could be huh.... What could be with the woman who no longer likes sex? Or, what it could look like with your penis resting on my tongue? Or, this is what I looked like 5 years ago but I now suffer from erectile dysfunction from lack of use?

Yah....

I think this is a hard pass for me.

Good luck on that search though.

secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
3/19/2021 2:52 pm

    Quoting CL_Love:
    Open and honest communication seems to be a lost art. Ugh.
I believe you're right... It does seem to be a lost art.


CL_Love 51M/50F
425 posts
3/19/2021 11:56 am

Open and honest communication seems to be a lost art. Ugh.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
3/17/2021 4:12 pm

    Quoting ajax00890:
    That reminds me of a used car salesman who tried to sell me a car I had no interest in. He kept lowering the price. I told him I wouldn't take it if it was free. Then he kept throwing in more "options and extras" as he called them. I finally said the only way I'd bite was if he paid me $500 to take the car on the single condition that he keeps it. Believe it or not, that didn't end his attempts, which continued until I got in my car and drove away.
I hate those high pressure sales tactics.....


ajax00890 49M

3/17/2021 3:25 pm

That reminds me of a used car salesman who tried to sell me a car I had no interest in. He kept lowering the price. I told him I wouldn't take it if it was free. Then he kept throwing in more "options and extras" as he called them. I finally said the only way I'd bite was if he paid me $500 to take the car on the single condition that he keeps it. Believe it or not, that didn't end his attempts, which continued until I got in my car and drove away.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
3/17/2021 3:23 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I've heard that story before.
I think most of us on here have heard this story before. It's stuff like this that wreck our ability to trust others. To be honest, some of my own past actions hinder my own ability to trust others, sadly.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
3/17/2021 3:19 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    I'm guessing there wasn't actually a 'couple' from the start
That's my guess too....


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
3/17/2021 2:21 pm

I'm guessing there wasn't actually a 'couple' from the start


mc_justmc 63M

3/17/2021 11:03 am

I've heard that story before.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
3/17/2021 2:00 am

    Quoting MrWrong4RghtNow:
    I have a smart ass comment for this one, but it’s on the tip of my tongue....

    (Yeah. That was terrible. But I can’t help it)
Um.... ew.....


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
3/17/2021 1:58 am

    Quoting agelesssexylegs:
    Typical men who think and talk through their members i would say she not gone off sex,she just gone off her hubby
I agree! There is definitely more to that story.


MrWrong4RghtNow 57M
2439 posts
3/16/2021 11:36 pm

I have a smart ass comment for this one, but it’s on the tip of my tongue....

(Yeah. That was terrible. But I can’t help it)

My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment


agelesssexylegs 80F
1145 posts
3/16/2021 10:23 pm

Typical men who think and talk through their members i would say she not gone off sex,she just gone off her hubby


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
3/16/2021 9:57 pm

    Quoting  :

I can't look at his profile, but I wish I could. I'd like to see when it actually was created, I feel the whole story was fabricated in hopes to win me over. Most of the 'couples' that have contacted me usually wind up being men. In just about every case, when I tell them I'm not interested in that, the man states he also has permission to play alone. Um, yah.... I stay away from the married ones too. At some point you're bound to have a scorned wife after ya.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
3/16/2021 9:35 pm

    Quoting  :

I bet you're right!!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
3/16/2021 9:34 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    People, right? Sheesh... It's a good thing ya didn't waste your time like I did today.

    Twenty minutes completely stopped in traffic, while two idiots waited for cops at a fender bender that could have been handled off to the side of the road.
    Idiots! ❗❗❗
    As most people drove by, they held their hands on their horns. Ugh.. WTF else could we do? 🤔
They were probably arguing about who was at fault and neither one wanted to budge until a ticket was issued. People suck.... it seems like noone gives a shit about anyone else anymore.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
3/16/2021 9:30 pm

    Quoting  :

He was trying very hard to win me over with polite responses. I'm not sure what he was expecting.... Red Flags Everywhere


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
3/16/2021 9:22 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    If she's lost interest ... and he was her partner .... makes you wonder why.
If I were to venture a guess.... playing alone without permission may have had a role.


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
3/16/2021 8:33 pm

If she's lost interest ... and he was her partner .... makes you wonder why.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
3/16/2021 6:01 pm

People, right? Sheesh... It's a good thing ya didn't waste your time like I did today.

Twenty minutes completely stopped in traffic, while two idiots waited for cops at a fender bender that could have been handled off to the side of the road.
Idiots! ❗❗❗
As most people drove by, they held their hands on their horns. Ugh.. WTF else could we do? 🤔


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