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It sounds like your only communication prior to your "date" was electronic. This is a regular thing that members do when they're not who they say they are. Members who are actually interested in meeting will take some time to get a feel for each other, they'll talk on the phone first or video chat. In this day and age, there's no reason to not be able to have this type of conversation unless they're not who they pretend to be. Write this one off and the next person you connect with, take your time, actually talk to them and ideally video chat, even if for just a minute. If they refuse, move on.
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you can quickly develop a bond and therefore care about the other person..... That is all imaginary when you spend days or weeks or months chatting online BEFORE ever meeting them. So stop that. When you have a persons attention online, get them to meet you someplace today or tomorrow [the day of the first online contact or the next day]. Just go meet for about 10 to 30 minutes.... very casual... don't make a big deal out of it. so do you chase to check they are ok .....No. They'll contact you , maybe....but if they don't... don't think twice about it. Just move on. or will they think you are been pushy and unreasonable sending messages trying to get them to confirm they are well and safe. ..... Fuck what they think....anyway, you're not going to contact them after not showing up to a meeting. even a message saying i am not interested would be better than nothing..... Yes, agreed, but people don't always do that, so you cannot expect them to be that cordial. i am confused. .... This is simple. No shows, mean they are not interested. So as I said, any future dialog you have online with a profiled member you want to meet, you suggest meeting the day of first contact, or the next.... don't string these conversations out over days, weeks and months.... Do it now, not later. I'll tell you something; Women don't always want to meet the guy , she just likes getting attention online. The online attention is kinda an ego boost for her.. ....And sometimes , it's a guy pretending to be a woman.
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2/21/2019 6:25 am |
YES! YES! YES! they are ok. they are safe. they never left the safety of their virtual world. sorry but i have to echo what others said... if they don't show they don't care. and if they do not care they are gone forever. there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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