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Impatience will kill your chances every time!  

WMK13 52F
73 posts
10/29/2020 5:54 am
Impatience will kill your chances every time!

Any other women are dealing with impatient men?

It drives me insane when I have deal with a guy has no patience! I spell out exactly what I'm looking for in my profile. I tell them I need get know someone first, be comfortable enough warrant a meet up in public. Yet time and again they push and push. It's a total turn off!

I think part of the problem is that the men come on here thinking they're going to find an instant hook up . When they don't, they get pissed. Instead of being patient, they push and push whomever they can get to talk them. Which in turn, becomes a turn-off, even a red flag!

And unfortunately for the men, the women tend have the advantage on here. With more men than women, & there's always another guy around the corner.

Do any other women find this be true? I'm really curious!

allgud69xxx 50M
502 posts
10/29/2020 11:03 pm

 Who knows what percentage of guys who are here actually believe the “hookup tonight” sales pitch from when they signed up. As with all interactions with people, you do sort-of have to pay attention to what the other person is saying. Well, perhaps if you’re a used-car or a door-to-door salesperson, that doesn’t apply. “Agreement” is a useful thing to accomplish, and that can look different from you might expect or assume (oh, that dangerous word ... )

I see no issue with building a little anticipation. And, sadly, women have some more personal-safety concerns, even in this day and age. It happens when, and/or if, it happens. Perhaps being able to subtly make the sale, rather than only trying to force it to happen, is a skill? More flies with honey ... ?
-- allgud69xxx

Yeah ... that's right ... I went there ..
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jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
10/29/2020 10:05 am
    Quoting localmotion50:
    And there is always another woman around the corner who wants it now.
if that's the case, then those are the women to pursue. however, if a woman is telling you to pause or she pumpin' her brakes, the guy will either take a clue and hold up a sec or he won't take the time to wait. we all have our own pace so no one person should be trying to dictate another person's comfort level.


windsjohn 72M  
798 posts
10/29/2020 9:34 am

 Men as a whole, want to get that sperm out fast,, it clogs up our thought processes..


localmotion50 73M
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10/29/2020 7:54 am

 And there is always another woman around the corner who wants it now.


ucum4daddy 63M
88 posts
10/29/2020 7:23 am

 I enjoy chatting, I enjoy teasing, Meeting is something two people feel after getting to know each other. Sex is still reserved for the third "Date" right ?.....lol


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