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I ain’t got nobody . . .
Posted:Aug 13, 2019 11:29 pm
Last Updated:Aug 14, 2019 9:32 am
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First, the title isn’t true. I do. I am attached with an incredible in the mix. But I have desires that remain infilled. Therapy, yup! Nope. She has left the building in this , narrow regard.

It’s not me. It’s the whole intimacy thing. Into the clean aspects of respect and love.

So, what to do? Not a unique situation. I think every study that comes shows a deeper and deeper disconnect in our unions. God knows we live longer, but it is t(e complexity that our lives admit of which makes us both more ungratified and yet yearning for constancy.

I suppose it has always been such, but we see our time as different. The digital world seems often everything now, the way we want it. We, of course, haven’t changed, the world around us has.

We do not have the tools to understand what is happening with us.

I want a new paradigm. I want our relations to be fluid. Love isn’t dimensional.

If you are a fluid individual, lemme know.

A voice in the wilderness.
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Drought Despite the Rain
Posted:May 26, 2019 7:36 pm
Last Updated:Aug 25, 2019 8:41 am
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I know that there are myriad reasons to that I am not intimate with anyone right now. But it is not for want of desire. Oh, damn. I've made an old man's quote again. Fuck. Oh, yes, please!

Damn. Slighted again.

Yes, I am older. You are too. Let's figure out what works; not in the eternal (you don't believe in Never-Never Land do you?). No, In the here and now.

What would please you?

I can do that!

And wha else?

I'll try that!

Life isn't about the "one way." the exact method. It is about exploration—until you die!

Let's try to find whatever we are each looking for.

Write.
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Older women
Posted:May 23, 2019 10:59 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2019 9:57 pm
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I understand the drive toward younger women, least, in its probability. But I also love an older woman.

I once worked in a studio where the boss's estranged wife did the books. I found her, my senior, exciting. Sure, I chased women. I married . But I found the trappings of age to be exciting, not off-putting.

I remember for another job, there was a woman who came to town every or so who was older. I ferried her to her accommodations and back, hoping to be asked in or to become her local playmate. She was wonderfully not perfect.

Of course, neither scenario played out in life; was too complicated, but I was very into the possibility.

Age does not determine sexual attractiveness; something else does. What is it? What causes those who were once sexually attractive to lose spark? I know women in their 60s and even 70s who have the flame. Why do some lose it in their 40s?

It has nothing to do with carrying or the sagging of muscle as a result.

To be sure, I do not think think all women should feel as if they should be attractive sexually. Life is to be lived as feels it and moves within it. But why do some woman carry a charge which often speaks to even men?
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Non-discriminatory
Posted:May 23, 2019 10:40 pm
Last Updated:Aug 25, 2019 8:41 am
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Not racially. I don't care about race or ethnicity. No, I mean everything else: weight, attachment, etc.

Even if I am non-discriminatory, I find so little interest here. I have had a few great chats now and then, but nothing that moves beyond that. I chalk it up to being a boring old man, but . . . . .

Truth is that I like sensuality and see it as an end in itself. I don't care about my climax but yours because in sharing your body, you have provided all that I need. Of course, I will endeavor to please you in any way you prefer, but I am content to chat, shed clothes, and touch and hold. If I can ravish you, wonderful! If you can find the way to make me take-off, great!

But if we just spend time together being vulnerable and open, that is enough! For me. Maybe for you?

I cannot predict what our experience will be together; I hope it is exciting, but I consider it no loss if it is simply pleasurable. If we connect as people.

I love to laugh, to play with your desires and drive them higher! I enjoy simply being in the moment.

I am not perfect; I count on the fact that you are not either. Therein lies the joy!
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