I have a question for this community. While I like the idea of being a submissive, I also like to Dominate role as well. I have found two separate women who are willing to teach or "train" me as i do not know much about the community, however is there anyone who can explain to me about filling out paperwork and submitting a filing fee. Sounds like a load of shit to me especially when I said I had cash and could hand it over personally. They both said it was not acceptable. It sounds like horseshit to me. Am I wrong???