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Always Learning
Posted:Jul 12, 2020 8:58 pm
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2020 7:37 am
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We've been in the LS now for almost two years. I think we had a bumpy start. In the very beginning we thought we wanted a girlfriend. That got complicated in a hurry. Guys weren't part of the picture yet.

It didn't take us long to see that couples are better. Well, better for us. But we are new at this so we only play together in the same room. Soft swap, full swap, we like both. Highly situational.

Before COVID we were just starting to get into the club scene. Great way to hook up with others for a little recreational sex. We thought this is kind of fun. Parties are cool too, but you never know what you are going to get.

What we like the most is getting together with like minded HWP couples. We absolutely love good chemistry. Which leads to good sex.

We're no longer totally new at this. We didn't know anything about the LS two years ago. Didn't know if it would be good for us or not. Still don't know much. Don't know where we will be in another two years.

Today all I can say is that we both like it. That it has become, or is becoming a part of who we are. That so far it has made us stronger as a couple not weaker. That everyone we have had an opportunity to have been intimate with has been a blessing because it has made us better in some way. Thank you my friends.
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For Our Friends.
Posted:Jul 1, 2020 11:30 pm
Last Updated:Jul 4, 2020 11:41 pm
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Lifestyle choices. There seems be a lot of them. Boundaries, styles, bisexuality, BDSM, kink, soft swap, full swap, Straight sex, and that comes with it. It comes in conversations of the time.

People ask, what do you like? How long have you been in the LS? Do you want talk or do you want have sex? Actually, we want both. We want have super good casual friends who love sex as much as we do. Who like share as much as we do.

Then want go home after having fun. NSA friends. Good chemistry. Happy be together for an intense but relatively short period of time. Maybe do it again next month. Hey, that was a perfect amount of fun. Our wives are both so sexy and hot damn. Can't wait to do it again. Right?

Why are we in the LS? For Sex... Okay, my wife and I believe that adding sexual variety into our already amazing sex life allows us to strengthen our relationship. We like to together for a reason. The joy of sharing sex with others together. We recognize the biological need to have sex with others is a normal and healthy desire. Not monogamous and not poly but recreational.

That's a lot of words just to say we like to have sex with others for fun. So for us, this is recreational therapy. It satisfies our desire for variety. That's it. Well, and also to reconnect. We have really great sex for awhile after playing with others. We reconnect and then love each other even more. We don't want to play with others all of the time but pretty often.
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Neo Liberal Economic Theory
Posted:Jun 30, 2020 1:31 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2020 1:49 am
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Today's capitalism is not the same as it was when I was a . We allowed corporations to become legal entities for one thing. When I was a company's took care of their employees. They paid for medical and retirement benefits. Plus, they paid wages that allowed for a healthy and prosperous middle class.

The so called American Dream was actually within reach back then. Not possible in today's economy. Wages have basically remained the same for 40 years. Yet the cost of living has increased so much that for many if not most Americans it is a struggle just to keep a roof over their heads and food on the table.

Getting a four year degree from an accredited university and even going to Grad school was actually affordable. Now you have to go into debt for life to pay for it. With no guarantee of career success.

Capitalism is out of control. The 1% do not pay taxes or contribute anything to the betterment of our society. They do not give a shit about the rest of us. They only want our money. All of it.

I guess you could say that conservative Neo Liberal Economics has very efficiently turned the US into a third world country. Not for the 1% but the other 99%. Shouldn't we change this?
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Tik-Tok
Posted:Jun 22, 2020 10:47 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2020 2:03 am
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I have to say I'm impressed by the tik-tok teens. Poor trump, that must hurt getting played by a bunch of teens. Good job . Very creative.
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Pride.
Posted:Jun 10, 2020 10:19 pm
Last Updated:Jun 24, 2020 12:08 pm
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I am so proud of the human race today. Proud to see so many of us standing around the world and taking a long needed stand against racism. The power of the internet which allows us see the injustice that the elitists wield against every population on Earth gives some hope. The masses can change things. We the people of Earth have the power change things. People, don't think small.

Obviously I have a bone pick against the elitists. Against 1% of the population controlling the other 99%. of these people are responsible for the human suffering we see no matter where we look. No matter what country we live in. When we look at the elitist leaders we always find the same thing. Evil. Maybe I should try coat it but it is what it is.

Racism is a disease of the human race as surely as the pandemic we are currently exposed . Except that we have a cure for racism. The masses have the power stop it and start a healing that this planet is in serious need of.

When the masses unite to remove evil from power things change. History is replete with examples. We have a responsibility to each other to make things change for the better. Okay, I know, just wishful thinking.

So I have hope. It's the first time in my life that I have ever seen the entire connected world population at large rise together and say, this has to stop. If we can do this what else can we do? Maybe we can get the elitists off of our necks. As for the cops, it also does not seem to matter where you live, they serve the elite.

So I have a little hope. If we can come together as a planet to put an end to racism then maybe we can put an end to the other things too.
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Intamacy
Posted:Jun 4, 2020 2:04 am
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2020 7:37 am
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I don't really want to talk about politics or religion. I do want to have friends. Friends we can be intimate with. Have fun and keep it light hearted. So let me keep it simple. If you support Trump we have nothing in common. If you are a racist we have nothing in common. If you are an elitist or an elitist want to be, we obviously have nothing in common. Normally I wouldn't give a crap about politics except these are not normal times. We can not and will not be intimate with these kinds of people. Total turn off.

Now, if you are not one of the above you might have a chance. Funny because I don't really give a crap about peoples kinks or their sexual orientations. I mean, we are pretty straight but whatever turns you on. As long as it doesn't cross our boundaries I don't give a shit. We want the people we become intimate with to also be friends, period. We don't want to fuck with strangers. Of course you can figure out pretty quick on a first date if there is any chemistry. Just be honest with yourselves, Straight up so to speak. But wow, guys you got to admit that when the good chemistry is there, we can all find the bedroom pretty quick. LOL.
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Musings
Posted:Jun 2, 2020 10:54 pm
Last Updated:Jun 2, 2020 11:36 pm
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I write here to piss and moan. Occasionally reflect on things I'm trying to understand. Make sense of it all. Thanks for reading my posts. Even though I know it's mostly just ranting and rambling.

I really hate Trump. How did we let such a monster into the White House? It looks like we have a group of people who are attempting to destroy democracy and create a fascist Nazi police state.

This guy looks like he wants to overthrow his own government. He's hurting America badly. Treating all American citizens like dirt. Cannon fodder for COVID. Peasants to be trampled underfoot when we are outraged. Making it very clear that he does not give a shit about us. Any of us. Especially anyone who is not white.

Look at how he handles everything he touches so roughly. So low class. So un American. Is he a Russian pawn? Racism in this country needs to stop. This man is deliberately trying to make it worse.

It is too bad that there is no change without violence. Can I see a raise of hands for how many people actually believe that their votes count? Sure doesn't look like it. And why are we never voting about things that don't involve taxes?

I hear the words Civil War tossed around a lot lately. Is this what it is going to come down to? Racists against non-racists? Our last and only civil war was about slavery. Is discrimination any different? When they keep good people from having financial opportunities because they are not white. Disgusting behavior.

Only a sick human being hates another human being because their skin color is different. Unfortunately for us poor Americans that's exactly the kind of man we have pretending to be the president of the United States. Which he is trying to divide. Bastard.
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Peace
Posted:Jun 2, 2020 12:26 pm
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2020 12:18 am
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Peaceful protests are an American right. Looting really only hurts ourselves and plays into Trumps divisive politics. I don't want a president that only fans the flames of hate. I don't want to stop protesting against racial discrimination and a screwed legal system in this country. As tempting as it is burn the house down it's not the right thing do.

The elitists in this country and in fact around the world are a huge problem. They basically keep everybody poor. We need do something about them. Maybe revolution is only a matter of time. I don't know. Until then however voting and protesting are the only tools we have to fight back against oppression, injustice, and discrimination.

We also need to change ourselves. My heart is broken because it looks like people are more interested in taking videos of a man being murdered in front of them instead of taking action to stop it. Cops or not I hope I would have the courage to drop the damn phone and break it . At least try save a mans life.
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I Can't Breath!
Posted:May 31, 2020 11:57 am
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2020 7:37 am
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I can't breath. Says much more about the state of our nation than the terrible murder of George Floyd. His death simply highlights the injustices in our country. Millions of Americans are unemployed now but even before this millions of Americans found themselves living in or on the edge of poverty.

Those people who continuously call for peace during a time of social unrest are the same people who are only interested in protecting their fat paychecks. I only hear from the elitists about how terrible the riots are. How awful that these unhappy people are burning down the town.

Screw the elitists. The tension caused by racism and oppression in this country is reaching a breaking point. It's not just black folks, who suffer the worst of it, but white folks too who are denied justice and opportunity in this country on a daily basis. The social inequality in this country is too much.

I say burn it down. The racist fascist sitting on his fat ass promoting violence and separation between the haves and have nots in this country should be drug into the streets and drawn and quartered. The other elitists in this country who think they can hide in their riches should face the same fate.

I Can't Breath! That's most of the Americans in this country. Capitalism without restraints has very clearly led us down this path. It's just a matter of time before the system completely breaks.
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Protests
Posted:May 30, 2020 12:36 pm
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2020 7:37 am
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Unless you live under a rock then you have witnessed the murder of George floyd national TV. It isn't the first time Black men have been unjustly killed by the police. It does highlight the degree of racism that continues in this country.

When people are hurt they cry out. Nobody listens. Still not heard so they scream. Nobody listens. So they throw things and burn down the institutions who should be listening but don't.

There is some truth in the story about a man who felt no warmth or love from the community he lived in. So he burnt it down so he could at least feel the warmth of the flames. Sometimes you have to destroy something before you can rebuild it.

Those people who call for peace and tell the people to vote if they want to see change are out of touch with reality. Time and again we see the vote used to sneak things into law that the people didn't actually want or know about because it is hidden in the details.

People are tired of being lied to. People are tired of being oppressed and denied justice by a system that only serves the rich. These calls for peace come from the elitists who basically own the police and are only interested in protecting themselves.

Will the murder of George Floyd be the straw that breaks the camel's back? Will the people rise and take this country back from the elitists who suck the life out of the people? As long as the 1% are in power you can only expect more lies, more oppression, and more death.

Wake people, wake .
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Newbie Transitions
Posted:May 25, 2020 8:14 pm
Last Updated:Jun 28, 2020 11:27 am
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We think we are still newbies. We've dated a few couples. Good people. Everyone has been very nice. Yet, we still haven't found a match where my wife and I both feel that there is enough positive energy to want to see them again in an intimate way.

We have been learning about the LS. Meeting people in the LS but not talking or bonding very much. We've got it into our heads that we should have good chemistry and hence friendship with the couples we become intimate with.

Don't really want to have spur of the moment sex with people we don't know. At least well enough to know if we have good chemistry or not. It's a different kind of friendship to be sure. For one thing there is no need to get to close. Just close enough to be able to get together from time to time in order to have a good time.

The club scene is pretty cool. Hope it opens up again soon. We would like to explore more. Hope to meet people we can see outside of the club. The accommodations are not bad and it's easy to get comfortable around other naked people.

Would like to be invited to more parties. Maybe meet the perfect couple to hang out with. Maybe not but it's still an opportunity to maybe meet a couple where we both and they both feel comfortable with each other.

So the way we see it is that until we meet a couple that makes us both feel good and we make them feel good we will just have to settle for being newbies. Open to sharing sex with others just have to be the right others.
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