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Can't Help But Smile
Posted:Jun 13, 2019 11:09 am
Last Updated:Jun 15, 2019 8:06 am
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I can't help but smile when

I see a puppy
A new colt runs in the field
When I see the wind
a cold beer on a hot day
When the butterfly kisses the lilac
when your memory dances through my mind



I smile Every day

~ image by Hermang67
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The Race is ON
Posted:Jun 11, 2019 11:04 am
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2019 1:25 pm
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this post inspired by superbjversion2

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Fetish Kink Fantasy
Posted:Jun 7, 2019 8:13 am
Last Updated:Jul 8, 2019 11:07 am
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This is a good (in my opinion) explanation:



The term “fetish” is used pretty loosely these days to mean anything that really really turns someone on.

But there is an official definition, and here it is…

From Wikipedia.com

“Sexual fetishism, or erotic fetishism, is the sexual arousal a person receives from a physical object, or from a specific situation”

So when the term is used “correctly” it is referencing a sexual need that goes far past desire into necessity. For someone to have a clinical fetish that person would have to have the fetishized item or situation involved 100% of the time in order to reach sexual arousal and climax.

What people frequently mean when they say fetish, is “kink”. Of course, language is fluid. Everyone works from a different internal dictionary and people might have a variety of experiences of words.

I’ve found that “kink” is a more accurate term for most. A good way to look at “having a kink” for something is that it’s an item/activity/situation that you find deeply, consistently erotic but is not necessary for your enjoyment of a sexual encounter.

Kink is also frequently used as an umbrella term for “the lifestyle” or as a sexual orientation. It can be used to describe a collection of activities (“kinky sex” might include some bondage or spanking, etc) that are enjoyed during sexual play.

Fantasies consist of the wide world of your erotic imagination. Having a fantasy about something does NOT mean you actually want it to happen in real life, which is one of the magical things about fantasies. In our minds we can explore experiences that may not even be possible, but are incredibly arousing to think about.

However using fantasies to fulfill a fetish (or kink!) can be a great compromise when the fetish (or kink!) is difficult or impossible to enact. For example, I’ve known many foot fetishists that fantasize about feet while having more traditional sex. This is helpful when one partner isn’t interested in the others fetish (or at least not every time) so that both can still have a happy sex life.

Bottom line, language and terminology are not worth getting hung up on. We fantasize about our fetishes and fetishize our fantasies. As long as we’re all getting (consensually!) what we need to feel sexually satisfied then that’s what’s important



I have no true fetishes, a few kinks yes, and in truth most of my fantasies have been expirenced.





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I pictured a song
Posted:May 20, 2019 9:14 am
Last Updated:May 29, 2019 3:57 pm
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Sunday Morning Coming Down
Written by Kris Kristofferson
Preformed by Johnny Cash
Image by Hermang


Well, I woke up Sunday morning
With no way to hold my head didn't hurt.
And the beer I had for breakfast wasn't bad,
So I had one more for dessert.
Then I fumbled in my closet through my clothes
And found my cleanest dirty shirt.
Then I washed my face and combed my hair
And stumbled down the stairs to meet the day.

I'd smoked my mind the night before
With cigarettes and songs I'd been picking.
But I lit my first and watched a small
Playing with a can he was kicking.
Then I walked across the street
And caught the Sunday smell of someone frying chicken.
And Lord, it took me back to something I'd lost
Somewhere, somehow along the way

On a Sunday morning sidewalk,
I'm wishing, Lord, I was stoned.
'Cause there's something in a Sunday
makes a body feel alone.
And there's nothing short a' dying
's half as lonesome as the sound
Of the sleeping city sidewalk
And Sunday morning coming down.

In the park I saw a
With a laughing little girl he was swinging.
And I stopped beside a Sunday school
And listened to the songs they were singing.
Then I headed down the street,
And somewhere far away a lonely bell was ringing,
And it echoed through the canyon
Like the disappearing dreams of yesterday.
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Welcum to May
Posted:May 1, 2019 2:18 pm
Last Updated:May 8, 2019 3:44 pm
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We all do it... people from this site likely more than the national average even.



Sometimes a release is just what the doctor ordered






and there is no requirement to fake it
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Ponderings....
Posted:Apr 28, 2019 9:22 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2019 6:19 am
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As I've grown older this is happening less and less.... it has become quality vs. quanity, so I need to get to know someone before there is sexual desire... but on occasion I still have that base desire, like yesterday in the grocery.... but in all honesty she did remind me of someone

when was the last time it crossed your mind
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April Showers
Posted:Apr 17, 2019 7:25 am
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2019 7:24 am
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Bring May flowers

Springtime brings many blessings....tank tops, short skirts to name a few.

Is it no wonder we get spring fever.... that time just before the days get warm, our anticipation grows.

Although I don't have many outdoor experiences...the ones I have I hold dear









Does the warmer weather get YOU motor rev'ing?
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Satire Saturday
Posted:Feb 2, 2019 8:13 am
Last Updated:May 1, 2019 1:16 pm
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Have an awesome day .... and SMILE it does your soul good













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What do you see!
Posted:Feb 1, 2019 9:29 am
Last Updated:May 11, 2019 8:57 am
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What we SEE ... KNOW.... BELIEVE is based on our experiences our culture and what has lead us to that point in our lives. Because all of these is different for each individual we don't always have the same perspective, and communication can break down. It is important to view things from an others perspective to understand what they see

What do YOU see......














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HNW ~ Let's Talk
Posted:Jan 30, 2019 7:51 am
Last Updated:Jan 31, 2019 1:51 pm
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Happy Half Nekkid Wednesday, This post isn't on theme... hell can't even say I know what the theme is, but I know its wednesday ~ happy Hump Day everyone~ and it is also
#BellLetsTalk - an initiative by Bell Canada to raise awareness for mental health

people all around us are struggling with some kind of mental disorder, anxiety, depression, loneliness, and it is hard to talk about it for most of us, myself included. I tend to retreat when things bother me, and keep it bottled up inside. I know it's not healthy, but I still do it.

To allow someone like me to talk I truly need a active listener, someone who genuinely cares about whats on my mind, I am sure I'm not the only one like this.

So on this LET'S TALK day I want to encourage every one to LISTEN, take an interest and make it possible for that somebody who needs to talk to be heard

and SMILE... it costs nothing but to the right person it is priceless

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Satyr Saturday
Posted:Jan 26, 2019 10:50 am
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2019 9:36 am
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I hope everyone is having a Grand day.... recharging... relaxing... or even like me, working

I received an email this week with some cute meme's I thought I would share with the blog community

















have an Awesome Weekend everyone
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It’s another beautiful day at the Red Pony Saloon and continual soiree
Posted:Jan 24, 2019 8:42 am
Last Updated:Jan 27, 2019 7:51 am
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"Many people think when they see a bear standing in the forest, it means to run. But the bear is just standing guard, looking to protect those he loves from whatever may come. Henry is a standing bear. And a standing bear will never run, no matter what."

This was a quote from a television show... Longmire.... about one of the main characters

In a way I am like that.... I don't run... I may not confront .... But I am there.... I will protect what is important to me.... quietly standing guard


not a standing bear but only image by Hermang of a bear
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50 WAYS TO MEET YOUR LOVER
Posted:Jan 18, 2019 8:07 am
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2019 8:47 am
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Over on the Fbookhookups.com alternative site I came across a post regarding the lyrics of Paul Simon's
"50 Ways to Leave Your Lover" .... the song only lists 5 so the OP was looking to complete the list.



The site here is about MEETING not so much leaving so I was thinking of Euphemisms for having sexy, I found this list but have to admit a lot of them I'd never heard



Do you have any favorite terms for doing the deed?
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