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The Hotwifing experience...4/16/21
Posted:Apr 16, 2021 8:14 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2021 8:15 am
The term “hotwifing” means getting your wife to have sex with another man. In most cases, the husbands take pleasure in watching their wives enjoy this experience. They may also enjoy hearing, watching, or knowing about the adventures of their wives. At times, husbands may be a part of this arrangement by fixing dates for their wives or engaging in a threesome.

hotwifing Hotwifing usually never starts when the couple is newly married or has just started living together. This will generally start only after a few years when the couple knows each other and doesn’t mind opening their relationship. A few years after marriage, some women start missing the sexual freedom they enjoyed before marriage. Also, husbands are secure about their relationship and are willing to allow their wife have sex with other men.

If the extra-marital partner is boring, inattentive, or does not treat the woman right, the woman can move on to another partner. The main support of women in this setup is their husbands. She gets to enjoy the best of both worlds because her security and anchor remain in her home. The success of this arrangement depends on the frequency and nature of prior sexual experiences of women. Women who have a history of extra-marital affairs don’t see this experience as a major change in their life. The only difference being they don’t have to hide their relations from their husband.

Benefits of Hotwifing

There are several benefits for a couple who are a part of this arrangement. It is the answer to many unfulfilled desires of women and is the top fantasy of most husbands. Here are some potential benefits of hotwifing:

a) Wife has the freedom to enjoy the company of the opposite sex

b) Helps in fulfilling sexual fantasies of the couple

c) Increases trust and communication between husband and wife

d) Husband learns to control feelings of jealousy

e) Women become more confident and are able to express themselves more freely

f) Husbands feel they are married to a sexy and hot woman

g) Women realize their potential for fantasy and intimacy

h) Husbands show increased interest in the looks and clothing of their wife

i) Married women can enjoy dating other men

j) Increases trust between couples

k) Husbands put extra effort to please their wife

l) Intimacy improves, as husbands find out about the secret fantasies of their wife

m) Husbands are likely to become more caring and romantic

n) Variety and new experience is enjoyed by the couple

o) Husbands are satisfied because their wife enjoys this experience
What Divides Nudists From Swingers? 4/14/21
Posted:Apr 14, 2021 7:51 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2021 8:18 am
What Divides Nudists From Swingers?
There has always been a huge confusion between swingers and nudists. To break it down, a nudist is one who enjoys hanging around without clothes, whether in public or at their private residence. On the other hand, a swinger is one who basically has sex, but without demanding money.
The Difference
swingers beach nudists are actually supported, by an organization, The American Association for Nude Recreation – AANR. This organization was developed in 1931 to give rights to the nudist recreation and information of such communities and places around the world. For instance, you can find a nudist park or resort, which lets enjoy swimming while naked. The association strictly forbids having sex in such places that have received the mandate. However, there are some resorts that are ‘adult only’, and surprisingly, or rather obvious enough, they are not supported by the AANR. Everyone knows that anything or slogan that states ‘adults only’ has some X-rated content with them. If you go to the ‘adult only’ nudist resort, as they call it, you could find people having sex.
Now, these people are swingers and not nudists. They engage in sexual activities freely with friends or strangers. That automatically gets them out of the nudist bracket.
Cuckolding tips...4/13/21 with photo
Posted:Apr 13, 2021 8:26 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2021 8:21 am
1. Carry out the practice in the correct manner

Many cuckold relationships involve a married couple who are both trusting of each other. The male will often get sexually aroused by watching or knowing about his partner having sexual relations with other people. There needs to be a level of trust and intimacy to start within a cuckold relationship. The practice is never a good idea if the relationship is already having problems or there are deep-seated trust issues. There is a risk that the relationship could break down if these issues are not addressed first. The couple will need to discuss whether having a cuckold relationship is right for them and they may reach this decision based on a number of different factors, such as how long they have been together the level of trust they have and the state of their current sex life.
The fine art of cuckolding...4/9/21
Posted:Apr 9, 2021 4:12 pm
Last Updated:Apr 13, 2021 8:25 am
Aurora Snow
February 21, 2014
Cuckolding Turns These Husbands On
Imagine hearing your wife whisper in your ear, telling you all the naughty things she did with a coworker in the backseat of your car. Instead of getting jealous, it turns you on. Maybe you enjoy the idea of how desirable your wife is. Or maybe you want to watch while she cheats on you, taunting you, forcing you to get involved in humiliating ways. Welcome to “cuckolding,” a taboo fetish that is far more common than you might think.

By definition, of course, a cuckold is the “husband of an adulteress.” The phenomenon itself is nothing new (see the works of Shakespeare or Chaucer). It might even be considered universal since dozens of languages have a term that refers to it. Today’s cuckolding fetish, however, takes the deception and betrayal out of cheating—both partners are in on the secret.

My first experience with swinging was cuckolding situation...long story short...the husband sat in a chair while I fucked his wife...I was to fuck her, shoot my load and get dressed and leave...never saw them again...

While some cuckolders like humiliation, not everyone is on board...
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The FWB lifestyle...4/8/21
Posted:Apr 8, 2021 6:16 am
Last Updated:Apr 9, 2021 4:01 pm
Choose Wisely
The point of a friends-with-benefits situation is to maintain a casual relationship without complications or commitment. In the end, don’t hook up with a longtime buddy or member of your core friend group. You probably also want to avoid anyone who lives in your building, advises Christine Coppa in Glamour Magazine. If you see your FWB outside of the bedroom on a regular basis, your relationship is likely to move faster than you intended. It’s best to choose someone whose daily life doesn’t intersect much with yours.
Lay the Ground Rules
For an FWB relationship to work, both partners need to agree on what they want. The romantic attachment will change a casual relationship, says Martin, and if feelings exist between you they will only grow stronger. prevent awkward miscommunication, tell your partner exactly what you’re looking for. Ground rules might include: no speaking about the other people you’re dating, no sleeping over, and no going out together. You make the rules -- just make sure that you and your FWB both agree.
Keep It Casual
Once you make the rules, stick to them. Don’t invite your FWB to hang out with your other friends, advises Coppa. Don’t suggest that you both go out to dinner together. Go home after a rendezvous instead of staying to cuddle. And try not to think about who else your FWB might be dating if he doesn’t bac You both agreed to keep it simple, which means you’re free to have your own fun instead of worrying about him. Make sure you continue to have your own plans with friends, family, and dating.
Speak Honestly
If your feelings change, you have said something. Miscommunication happens when one person in a friends-with-benefits situation begins to want more but doesn’t speak the truth. In a study done by researchers at Michigan State University and Wayne State University, of the friends-with-benefits relationships studied, “One-tenth of these relationships went on become full-scale romances…about a third stopped the sex and remained friends, and one in four eventually broke it off — the sex and the friendship. The rest continued as friends-with-benefits relationships.” In short, the relationship is likely to change or end at some point, so it’s best to be honest about your feelings if you want to avoid complications.

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How to find other Doggers...4/7/21
Posted:Apr 7, 2021 8:09 am
Last Updated:Apr 8, 2021 6:13 am
Doggers usually find each other amid Internet forums and newsgroups. It's much quicker than popping into every park in the area looking for action. Some dogging forums will post the time and place of these events. Other times they ask doggers to reply with their cell phone number then use text messages to reveal the location, to ensure it remains secret.
In the U.K., doggers' websites list the most popular secluded locations, like public parks and parking lots.
Or you can always opt for "Toothing." Using Bluetooth technology, you can find other PDA phones in your vicinity while in a specific location like a parking lot, a nightclub, or public transport, and send out a general proposition seeing if anyone is up for some action.
know how it's done
Doggers use a series of simple signals to let others know what they're up to.
Let others find you
If you want to invite voyeurs to approach your car and get an eyeful, park in a somewhat visible spot, then flash your headlights or leave the interior car light on. This will tell everyone that you're doggers and you're about to put on a show.
Give them a clear view
When there are voyeurs outside the car watching you, roll down the windows a smidgen if you want them to get an even better view of the action.
Open your door to invite others
If you want them to share in the sexual activity, the accepted way to do this is by opening the door and letting one of them in or by getting out of the vehicle.
There are rules of etiquette when it comes to the dogging affair...
Dogging - An Adventurous Sex Trend...4/6/21
Posted:Apr 6, 2021 6:48 am
Last Updated:Apr 7, 2021 8:08 am
Here's something for all of you looking for a one-night tryst but don't want to venture further than the public park. It's called "dogging," and it's essentially having sex in a car parked in a public place with other people watching or even joining in.

This pastime originated in the U.K., where it is no less than a craze, but now it's rapidly gaining popularity in the U.S., Canada, Germany, France, Ireland, and New Zealand.

The name is derived from Peeping Toms who would follow, or "dog," couples hoping to catch them having sex. Then dogging was done in the tube stations late at night. In its most recent incarnation, it's being done in parking lots and parks.
Part 2 of the Threesomes
Posted:Apr 5, 2021 6:25 am
Last Updated:Apr 6, 2021 6:44 am
Many people jump into having a threesome with little or no thought about the repercussions. There are some good things about a threesome, and that is often what is considered. The positive aspects are that you get to try something new, you’ll be excited about sex, and this will carry over to sex between the two of you.

Sometimes there is also the thrill of choosing someone that you will have a threesome with, and then asking them and having them agree to the night of fun! When you consider all this, why wouldn’t you have a threesome? Many relationships are benefited after a threesome!
The Threesome Part 1...4/4/21
Posted:Apr 4, 2021 9:28 am
Last Updated:Apr 5, 2021 3:24 pm
Before you jump into a threesome learn if threesomes are a good idea or not! Many people in relationships get a bit bored with their sex life and start thinking about options to spice it up. For many people, the idea of a threesome comes to mind. A lot of people find the idea of being with two people at once very exciting.

There is a common thought out there that says that this is something that applies to men more than women, but there are just as many women who find this an exhilarating idea as there are men. The result is that couples often choose to have a threesome.
Signs to help identify swingers...Part Three...4/3/21
Posted:Apr 3, 2021 10:20 am
Last Updated:Apr 4, 2021 9:27 am
They have a hot tub.
Having a hot tub on your back patio has consistently been associated with being a member of the swinging community. While I don’t necessarily think it’s a sure-fire way to tell, it is definitely a sign.
Admittedly, we do have a hot tub and so do many of our lifestyle friends!
Ours was purchased before we entered the lifestyle, but perhaps subconsciously we just knew we were destined for swinging?

4. They seem to get hotter with age.
The swingers we know are aging like fine wine.
When you think back to your dating years do you remember the lengths you went to in order to impress your dates?
Those of us in the lifestyle are still putting in that kind of effort.
While most people our age are skipping the gym, letting waxing fall off their priority list, and showering once a week we’re still keeping things tight from head to toe.
When you’re part of the swinging lifestyle, taking care of your health and appearance is important. My husband and I look better now, in our late-30’s, than we did when we were 25.

Other rumored signs and symbols of swingers
We’ve heard of various other symbols and signs being used over the years, but haven’t really been able to confirm any of them as accurate.
A few other rumored signs floating around on the web include pampas grass in the front yard, a pineapple door knocker, pink flamingos in the yard, women wearing toe rings, and matching couples yin-yang tattoos.
While most of us in the lifestyle go to great lengths to maintain our privacy, there are still some signs that make identifying swingers possible.

If your favorite neighbors wear curious jewelry, have a lawn filled with gnomes, an over-sized hot tub, and keep getting hotter while everyone else around them gets older, they just might be swingers.

A lot of this information is outdated and I don't agree with a lot of it but is good fun to read...
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Definition of Dogging...4/2/21
Posted:Apr 2, 2021 11:40 am
Last Updated:Apr 2, 2021 6:56 pm

Dogging is a British English euphemism for engaging in sexual acts in a public or semi-public place or watching others doing so. There may be more than two participants; both group sex and gang banging can be included. As observation is encouraged, voyeurism and exhibitionism are closely associated with dogging. The two sets of people involved often meet either randomly or arrange to meet up beforehand over the Internet. Dogging started in the later part of the 20th century, in the UK, with locations mainly being public car parks and lay-bys with activity normally taking place after dark. Doggers would usually leave their interior lights on in their cars so that other doggers would know that they too were doggers. Some flash their headlights at other cars or flick the interior light on briefly. These are the most common signs to show that one is a dogger, and are also the signs used by gay men who use lay-bys as cruising grounds for sexual activity. Many dogging locations are used by both straight doggers and gay men. In September 2003 the BBC reported on the 'new' dogging craze. They cited the Internet and text messaging as common ways of organizing meetings. The original definition of dogging – and which is still a closely related activity – is spying on couples having sex in a car or other public place.

Signs to help identify swingers...Part Duex ...4/2/21
Posted:Apr 2, 2021 6:15 am
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2021 10:21 am
Here are some of the signs that we, along with our swinger friends, have identified over the years.

1. They have lawn gnomes in their yard.
Cute, sweet, and colorful lawn gnomes have always been associated with the swinging community.
Our neighbors, who have no idea we’re swingers, often joke about others in our neighborhood having gnomes and not knowing their true meaning. I always joke back and tell them maybe Martha and John are swinging well into their 80’s — you never know!
Come to think of it, my Grandma had lawn gnomes all over her yard. Perhaps this swinging thing is hereditary?

2. They wear curious jewelry.
We’ve heard for years that a black ring on a man’s right hand is a way to identify fellow swingers. Or that a woman wearing an anklet on her right ankle is a sign a couple is out and open to meet other swingers.
While these might be identifying clues, I‘m fairly certain I wouldn’t trust these clues alone or attempt to break the ice by asking, “…so I see your ring/anklet, are you a swinger?”

We recently learned there is an international symbol for swingers. Their website has jewelry, clothing, temporary tattoos, and accessories that aim to help attract and identify like-minded people worldwide.
While we might wear something like this when we’re out of town or traveling, we certainly wouldn’t wear it locally for fear of being easily outed.

Here is some eye candy for your effort to read the entire post...
How to meet other swingers...4/1/21
Posted:Apr 1, 2021 6:24 am
Last Updated:Apr 2, 2021 4:16 pm
Are there certain ways to identify swingers?
This is the million-dollar question that comes up all the time in the swinging community.
The general consensus among our swinger friends is that if there were a sign or symbol specific to those in the lifestyle, no swinger would use it for fear of being outed.
We have friends who’ve attempted to use colorful lawn ornaments or exotic plants in an attempt to send self-identifying smoke signals to others in the lifestyle.
These little clues may serve as breadcrumbs for other swingers on the prowl but typically aren’t so bold they’d accidentally out them to their friends and neighbors.
While the swingers we know might not be displaying a banner saying “swingers looking to party” in their front yard, that doesn’t mean it’s completely impossible to identify clues and signs that your next-door neighbors just might be in the lifestyle.
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