What do you like to do when your woman has that moment...?  

virgotokyo 48F
119 posts
10/18/2020 1:21 am
What do you like to do when your woman has that moment...?

This is a very common topic between girls when we have our boys/relationship.

Whether you are in a relationship, or dating/cyber meet-, when women have PMS and those painful moments, some of us, including myself have tendencies get dark and painful days unfortunately.

Said that, I could be also super horny (hormone peak) time time even during the bloody days. I do not want share these dirty messy scenes visually with him as I may feel awkward (been there, done that), no matter how long I have been in a relationship or casual dates. When I mentioned this, my girl friends were so surprised as she and hubby have been bonding business as usual all week no matter what. I wish I could be the way but I am not....

I feel bad for him apparently and would like him enjoy during those days, too and always wonder what I can do better for a partner?

As a keen learner, I would like to learn from your experiences, what can we girls do better onwards to let him even more excited rather than get bored?

Any suggestions, it would be very much appreciated Thanks
Give him BJ by oral/hands
Make love anyway despite red ocean in the bath as it just does not matter
Let him watch porn /Aff sites (whatever) to give him freedom
All the above 1-3
Keep a distance until red ocean is fade away.
Other suggestions (details, please)


findpeterhere 45M
21 posts
10/18/2020 6:08 am

The Oral/hand job option is always appreciated (by me anyway!) when having actual intercourse is more difficult, especially when it is proposed by the girl rather than the guy. But the relationship should be strong enough that a few days without is easy to manage. You could always make it more erotic by starting with a massage that builds the excitement and leads to the hand job or BJ, Such massage service should be returned at a later date of course!


virgotokyo replies on 10/18/2020 8:04 am:
Hi Thanks for your comment!
I agree that I am happy to give hand/oral option in general during that days and massage is absolutely a good option, isn't it? I would love to receive that, too

boobwhisperer69 57M  
6207 posts
10/18/2020 3:28 pm

Allow him to bring home a lover! And you be a part of it too! you can play and just not have sex! If you trust and allow him, might be surprised at how close you become!


virgotokyo replies on 10/19/2020 3:34 pm:
Thanks for your comment. Well That's absolutely mind blowing thought, isn't it.
Unsure if many women including myself can do that mentally,,,but I am sure that's a huge surprise.

scbirdieman 61M  
16 posts
10/18/2020 6:27 pm

Was in a long term relationship with a woman whose libido skyrocketed seemingly commensurate with the flow, so to speak. It was a little disconcerting to wander into the bathroom post thrill and discover the little fellow covered in red, but it was quickly forgotten. After all, how can you say no to a woman at the peak of her libido?


virgotokyo replies on 10/19/2020 3:49 pm:
Thanks for your comment!
I like the expression on your partner as having skyrocketed high libido.....what a amazing! lol I have to admit I still have high and low on my libido... I assume because you have been such an amazing partner to be around with, she could have kept going, too

atveffect 43M  
57 posts
10/19/2020 5:41 pm

let him do it on the rag just take a shower or let him do your butt


sussi1028 60F
820 posts
10/19/2020 5:46 pm

    Quoting scbirdieman:
    Was in a long term relationship with a woman whose libido skyrocketed seemingly commensurate with the flow, so to speak. It was a little disconcerting to wander into the bathroom post thrill and discover the little fellow covered in red, but it was quickly forgotten. After all, how can you say no to a woman at the peak of her libido?
I so agree with you, it was always the pinnacle of my desires, and if a man loves you, he will happily puddle in the red seas
At this time of the month, making love in the ocean, lake, waterfall is just PERFECT
Never in the pool, bathtub or hot tub, had one special boyfriend, he did not care, bathtub was not off limit to him. He knew how to get me there, but after I got off, noticed the mess, I jumped out, he only laughed about it. Oh well, it never happened again, young guys just don’t know limits, when they love you.

PMS is a challenge, but once again, if he loves you he will feel so sorry for you, and making love does not enter his mind. Would advise anyone to stay away even from a HJ when in this condition, it certainly would harm the relationship. It all depends on how bad it is, but if you call it PMS, even a HJ or BJ should be off the table or let me say out of the bedroom


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virgotokyo replies on 10/26/2020 3:20 pm:
Thanks for your comment.
A very good point taken, he may be okay to paddle the red ocean if he loves

findpeterhere 45M
21 posts
10/20/2020 10:01 am

    Quoting findpeterhere:
    The Oral/hand job option is always appreciated (by me anyway!) when having actual intercourse is more difficult, especially when it is proposed by the girl rather than the guy. But the relationship should be strong enough that a few days without is easy to manage. You could always make it more erotic by starting with a massage that builds the excitement and leads to the hand job or BJ, Such massage service should be returned at a later date of course!
Mutual massage is a wonderful thing, but I have found the act of paying attention to your partner by for example giving a neck and shoulder massage when she needs it can often lead to a more intense session for you both as there is the surprise of an innocent act turning into a passionate encounter.


virgotokyo replies on 10/26/2020 3:22 pm:
Thanks again for your comment.

iraduu 40M
2876 posts
10/21/2020 1:43 pm

very sex oral


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