I came to AFF because I was curious about the Purity Test, and I had to join to take it. I didn't realize at the time that this site is really mostly all about sex. While I do enjoy sex, I had mindblowing sex while I was married, a little kinky compared to what most married couples do I think, it has always been with only one man. He loved to eat me. It didn't matter what time of the month it was, or if he had already climaxed inside me, HE WAS DOWN THERE. I never turned him down. Sex was FUN. I ALWAYS climaxed as many times as I wanted (12 times) before penetration, then we ALWAYS climaxed together. I like to feel an emotional connection to someone, and feel a certain amount of physical attraction before I engage. Not into women sexually. I also want to say in regard to sex, that a long time partner is best for complete satisfaction. Kink can extend from that however both partners agree, with respect to each others boundaries. Frequency of sexual partners does not contribute to trust or a certain degree of familiarity that I need for sexual fulfillment. I exercise several times a week, and like to stay physically fit, however I am 62, and my body has changed. Looking and feeling my best contributes to full participation, I like feeling attractive and sexy (tight jeans and boots). What my partner does in regard to exercise is strictly his business, but I like to feel physical attraction, and that varies, i like all types of men, perality and sense of humor are important. In other words, I like to feel an emotional connection, a feeling of wanting to be close, a little lust, right? If I do not feel physically attracted to u, it ain't gonna happen. Sometimes that takes time. I would expect that the same would be true for the men I meet. :)

Der ideale Mensch für mich I am looking for relationship, long term.
My ideal man would be smart, witty, funny, and would love to laugh. He would be very confident, and look it. He would be well groomed. Disheveledness is not conducive for physical attraction and the feeling of lust that might lead to something. He would know how to please a woman without too much direction. Most men I have encountered are finicky about pleasing women in certain ways, they all want sex, but do not know how to please.