NOT A PLAYER! NOT A SWINGER! (I’ve always been a one-woman man my whole life). Looking to connect with women on this site with the ultimate goal of establishing a monogamous relationship falling somewhere between FWB and LTR (no marriage). I have some moderate fetishes, mild kinks and fantasies I’d like to explore with a like-minded woman. In as much as I’m incapable of sex 24/7/365, there has to be a connection OUTSIDE the bedroom, as well. Needless to say, at my age, I've done many things, been to many places and have many interests (like most people). I enjoy the outdoors as well as the indoors. Love to cook (when I have time). Enjoy hiking, travel, poker, live theater, concerts, stand up comedy/comedians, museums, board/card games, the company of a good woman and the touch of an intimate friend. Hardcore rocker with a love for most all music. Musician - amateur guitarist who's also dabbled in other instruments. Fairly well-traveled, domestically and internationally (got stories to share, would love to hear yours). Cancer survivor with true grit and determination, then and now.

My Ideal Person I subscribe to the notion that physical and sexual attraction is 90% in the brain. Smart is sexy! Looking for a genuine and carefree woman that is "low maintenance" and does not have extravagant (read: unrealistic) expectations. Someone who lives life one day at a time and is spontaneous. I am looking for a woman that is compassionate and understanding. Financially independent, or reasonably so. Confident, with a high degree of self-esteem.

"...To find a queen without a king
They say she plays guitar
and cries and sings
Ride a white mare in the footsteps of dawn
Tryin' to find a woman who's
never, never, never
been born..."

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Way too numerous to mention.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Honestly, I don't have anyone particular in mind. Sandra
Bullock might come close.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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