2023 UPDATE I am 32, I have a car so I am able to get myself to and from whereever the catch is I do not drink and drive so if we going drinking I prefer somewhere close to home in town I have a that I never get to see cuz my ex insisted he dont want to see me but I pay support for so I spend most of my week working I am like a feline, love freedom, spontaneous, fun loving, calm/relaxed, prefers indoors. No drama, no nonsense, and plz know what you want, dont waste my time. Dont give me the standard whatever you want/like answers cuz that just shows you dont care or dont know what you want Looking for friends, fwb, long-term preferred but short-term ok too sugar daddies also welcome but not required Also looking for an experienced Switch/Dom so I can venture more into bdsm and learn my limits past the basic/tame/borderline vanilla handcuffs/tied hands and/or blindfold plays I am who/what I am, if you dont like/cant handle, you know where the door is, my time is priceless are you worth the investment? Am switch. No straight vanilla plz. (If you dont know/understand, dont bother cuz youre not it) Here are a few very IMPORTANT things if you are interested to meet with me: 1 MUST be free of Drug and Decease STDs included 2 MUST be Discreet friends and family lives in town, not into broadcasting my relationship status to the world atm 3 Please use condoms 4 I go with the flow so please make suggestions I am still learning my limits I want to know what YOU want to do to and or with me I will let you know if its something I dont want or wont never try Tho I am very openminded and usually dont object to much 5 I ABSOLUTELY WILL NOT TRY WATER SPORTS AND SCAT or anything illegal So please dont even ask about those 6 If you are able to host thats a plus 7 I DO NOT AND WILL NOT CONDONE CHEATING, meaning if you are looking to play in secret plz look elsewhere. I will happily join in on the fun with those in open relationships/swinger couples as long as all parties involved in a relationship is aware if what's going on WARNINGTHIS IS IMPORTANT SO PLEASE READ CAREFULLY Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects You DO NOT have my permission to use any of my profile information or pictures in any form or forum both current and future If you have or do it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications P.S. It is recommended that you post a similar notice to this on your profile Feel free to copy and paste this message Copy and paste ONLY this message please dont go copying anything else from my profile THANK YOU I go by Elaine Born in July 1990 250 lbs have been for the past 3 yrs am trying to lose some weight but not having much success because I like food too much if you cant tell I am a blunt to the point kinda gal so just ask whatever you wanna know I also go off grid often not big on social media sorry if I dont reply quickly I am into living in the moment not scrolling or stalking other peoples lives while wasting my own If you have made it this far and is still interested in getting to know me better or something give me a kick in title 1 I will try to get back to you asap I am also on Tinder in title 2

My Ideal Person Still looking. Read above. Are you it?

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
None, I think... I like anything that sounds good.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage, I'm still trying to see what I like, and what I don't like...

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No. Don't really care about celebs much...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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