I am very well traveled and educated. I am interested in human contact due to being in a sexless marriage. Not interested in finding a woman who is looking for a committed relationship except for a friend with benefits situation. Although I am married, I have found myself through out the years needing to find a woman who makes my stomach feel like butterflies when I think and see her. Have you ever thought about the connection people have with out the use of social media phones computers? I actually yearn to see a woman who when we are together that actually turns off the computer and phone to have intelligent conversations and serious love making with out interruptions? I love intimacy, such as candles, low lights, soft music and being in the moment of your company. Being unsatisfied with my current love life here is a list of what I have been doing to cure the pain of not having a sex relationship with my marriage. I have been with married women, 3 somes, husband and wife's, but nothing has amounted to just being with a actual friend with benefits. I'd love to have a partner that I could actually see 3 to 4 times a week. I know I am asking for a lot but I really need a connection with someone.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a woman, couple, 2 women who are interested in a long term friends with benefits. She or the couple who are secure in their relationship that are waiting some of the same things I am interested in, and not looking for anything other than a friend with benefits arrangement. I am still looking for friends who are intelligent, romantic, and have a wonderful head on their shoulders who can explore new horizons and remain friends...