hit us up there if you’d like to talk! We’re a mid 40’s couple (although everyone we know says we both look younger, must be all the sex lol!), married for over 10 years, we live in the suburbs, have good jobs, and no s (so we can actually host without issues anytime). We love good food (he’s an awesome cook!), good music, the outdoors, sports (yes, both of us! Go Bears, Hawks, and Cubs!!!), travel, and so much more. We took a break from swinging because life just heaped a bunch of issues on us at once, like moving, changing jobs, etc, but now that things have calmed down, we’d love to start having fun with others again. We’re a full swap couple that’s experienced in being with other couples (and the occasional unicorn), and while our “restrictions” are few, the one thing we ask of everyone is to be respectful. Respect is the most important aspect of swinging in our opinion, without it, and it just never works out. For those new to the lifestyle, we know it can take time to get comfy with sharing, and while we just jumped in feet first (or was it face first lol), some people like to start out with soft swap, and we’re fine with that, we’re not pushy people at all, and we ALWAYS respect people’s boundaries. We’re a mid 40’s couple (although everyone we know says we both look younger, must be all the sex lol!), married for over 10 years, we live in the suburbs, have good jobs, and no s (so we can actually host without issues anytime). We love good food (he’s an awesome cook!), good music, the outdoors, sports (yes, both of us! Go Bears, Hawks, and Cubs!!!), travel, and so much more. For those new to the lifestyle, we know it can take time to get comfy with sharing, and while we just jumped in feet first (or was it face first lol), some people like to start out with soft swap, and we’re fine with that, we’re not pushy people at all, and we ALWAYS respect people’s boundaries. That said, here's what we like sexually...She’s bi (not bi-curious, she’s done about everything you can with a woman), loves to kiss (making out is a HUGE turn on for her, and she’s a great kisser!), loves oral (both giving and receiving), toys, porn, and yes, she loves cock! She’s clean shaven, and prefers her guys and girls that way too, but as long as you’re trimmed (not a hairy mess down there), she’s not going to say “no” just because of that. She likes it rough on occasion, but not TOO rough (if you’ve drawn blood, you’ve gone too far, more like being tied up and spanked), and OCCASIONALLY she’ll do anal (she loves it, but has to be in the right mood for it, and with someone she trusts. She loves sucking two men at once, sucking one guy while getting fucked from behind, and she REALLY wants to try DP (it’s been done with toys, but she really wants the real thing). She’s fixed, so she can’t get pregnant, but prefers to be cum on, rather than in, and yes, if she likes you she’ll let you cum on her face lol (she actually loves to get a double shot!!). She’s not picky about size, as long as you use it well, and oral skills get you an A+! She’s known to lose her clothes entirely after just a minute or 2 of making out, so it’s not exactly a challenge to get her naked if she’s even mildly into you lol! Her turn offs are pretty much the same as his...bad breath, bad manners, poor hygiene, jealousy, lying, disrespect, pushy people, people that don’t know the meaning of “no”, and just being a shitty per in general. He’s straight (but not freaked out by incidental contact, when there’s a pile of naked bodies, she’s sucking both guys off, or she finally gets her wish for a DP, there’s going to be some incidental contact), loves to kiss (awesome kisser!), making out is a huge turn on to him, LOVES to lick (everywhere), and will go down on you for a LONG time (and is EXTREMELY talented with his tongue)! He’s 6.5-7, circumcised, clean shaven (he prefers his girls to be clean shaven too, but he won’t say no to you as long as you’re neatly trimmed), has incredible stamina, will go for multiple rounds, and shoots RIDICULOUS loads (not bragging or a joke lol, but he makes most “porn stars” cumshots look tiny by compari, if you don’t like to be cum on it’s fine, he’ll just cum on me instead, but if that’s a turn on for you, he’s your guy!). He’s never shy, and his clothes often seem to disappear with the first kiss, so don’t be shocked if you’re suddenly kissing a naked guy (if we’ve all agreed to play of course, he’d NEVER do that otherwise!!). He’s super respectful of the girl he’s with, and treats her as though she’s his girlfriend (meaning in the absolute best way imaginable, he’s respectful beyond belief). He always makes sure that the girl he’s with gets to cum a few times (at least) before he does, and the fun doesn’t stop just because he’s cum, unless she needs a break lol. He likes girls of all body types, and there’s no need to be shy with him, you’ll know if he likes you! He’ll do pretty much anything you ask, so if you have anything specific in mind, or fantasies you’d like fulfilled, just ask and he’ll be happy to make them come true! We’re clearly a full swap couple, but will gladly accommodate newcomers that want to take it slow with just kissing/touching, or soft swap (to us that means everything up to, and including oral...if your version is different, just be sure to tell us your limits, and we’ll respect them). We always play together as a couple, same room at first, but as we get to know you and trust you, we loosen up on that as far as playing in the same room, and she’s even let him play separately with a girl we knew well once (the girl came over for a threesome, but she was just exhausted, so she let them play alone). We can always host (no s), so our place is always available, king size bed in the bedroom, ENORMOUS sectional in the living room, lots of places to get naughty together, and even a secluded balcony where we can all have sex outdoors together! We’re open to all races, but we do have our preferences, and that would be Caucasian in general, and she kind of has a thing for Asian girls (so if you’re an Asian girl, go to the head of the class lol!). We’ve both slept with people of pretty much every ethnicity though, so don’t feel like you shouldn’t hit us up just bc you weren’t our “preference”, it’s really just a general preference anyway. As a disclaimer, we think it’s good to say that if we agree to meet up, that sex isn’t necessarily a given. We’re going to be a little bit picky, and we’d hope you are too! We’re not going to waste your time though, we ask a lot of questions before meeting up, and try to talk as much as possible before we get together so there aren’t any “unpleasant” surprises. That system seems to work for us, as we’ve actually “hooked up” with every couple we’ve met up with, but we eliminated quite a few (A LOT more than we’ve been with) in the “screening process”. Ultimately, we’d love to make some close new friends that we can do things with both in, and out of the bedroom. We’d love to be able to share our lives with some new friends, travel with them, go out to dinner with them (or have them over for dinner), have them over for games (or go to games together), and have the best sex of our lives together! We’ve been on SLS for about 10 years, and had certs there, but it seems the couples that we were with have left the lifestyle, so those certs are gone sadly, but once you talk to us you’ll know that we’re for real. We always VV before agreeing to meet up, and if your wife really exists, she’ll take a moment to talk to the me and confirm we’re both girls. If you have any questions, feel free to message us, no question is too “weird” to ask lol. Most of all, please be honest with us!!! We’re going to be sharing our most intimate places and feelings with you, sex is something beautiful, and we think it’s even better with like minded friends, please come join us and be those friends!!! Oh, single guys will be ignored. Single guys that are annoying will be reported. If for some rea I want a single guy, I’m pretty sure I can go pick one up pretty much anywhere, thanks! Thanks, and hope to hear from you soon!!! We did format this to have paragraphs, sorry it’s so hard to read, I guess that’s just how the site works.

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