First of all, I was doing a triathlon that day in the pic. I don't dress that way all the time... unless you want me to.....lol Seriously, the military taught me to be both an officer and a gentleman. Conduct yourself with pride in what you do, put the goal ahead of your personal interest, and treat people with respect. Your satisfaction comes first. If a woman is satisfied, she will definitely put a big smile on her man's face. I will do whatever I need to do to make certain your toes curl in pleasure. I am not afraid to bring in toys or work around your fantasies. I know that women are different than men when it comes to sex. You want to be mentally seduced, you want to be pampered and attended to as if you were the only woman on earth. Physical attraction is important, but a personal connection can be more attractive. Lets talk. I don't judge your needs, interests, or what gets you off, because that is part of respecting people, being non-judgmental. I have a photo in my album. I'm sorry but my public job keeps me from being open about what I want. I am looking for something from this site, but I like my job and don't want to lose it so discrection is important. If you like what you see when you get it, we can continue, if you don't, then no big deal we part ways. I'm an average looking guy, with a nice build, and a great attitude awaiting your orders. Yes, the personality profile was right on, as was the purity test. So if you want to know more, go check them out.

My Ideal Person I want someone who will cater to my needs as well. As I said before, I will take care of you first, and I hope you return the favor. Again, the bedroom is one place where I don't need to be first, but when the pleasure is all one sided, well that is called selfishness. I will get you off by doing whatever is necessary, and hope you do the same for me. So lets have some fun and make some noise. This doesn't mean that I am only looking for sex. Kissing, holding, and touching are fine. In fact the warm fuzzy spooning moments afterwards are just as nice. The idea is to feel wanted and loved emotionally and physically. I am divorced so it has been a while and I want that feeling again. Fucking is nice, but it doesn't have to be the finish all the time. Hey, some of the best orgasms have been via foreplay alone. Spooning is a must though.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Dinner at a nice restaurant with a long tablecloth. We are
seated in a corner somewhere. We sit romantically next
to one another, but under the tablecloth our hands are all
over each other, slowly bringing each other to a climax.
The whole time nobody knows why we are really being so casually
affectionate. Things build up so that we can't wait
to get home so we duck in somewhere to consumate the night.
Who needs dessert when the appetizer and main course are
so satisfying.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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