~ Well, something caught your attention...Take a closer look, there is so much more to Me than meets the eye. Keep reading if you really think you want to contact Me cuz you may not like the games I like to play... ~ ~ Upfront...I am TIRED of Vanilla.... And NO, before you get all excited, I am NOT a SUB!! No interest in exploring My nonexistent "sub" side, but thank you for all the offers...~ ~ If you do not have a pic of your face as your primary photo, include one when you contact Me, All I have to go on is your profile and pic, when making a decision as to whether I am going to respond or not ~ If all I see is a pic of a dick, that is what I will think of you as ~ Just because you are interested in Me does not mean I am interested in you ~ Do Not Presume to lecture Me on what is the decent thing, the right thing or the cool thing to do by at least responding to you and letting you know I am not interested ~ THE VERY ACT OF NOT RESPONDING, IS IN FACT A RESPONSE, IT MEANS THAT I AM NOT INTERESTED ~ ~ I am looking to expand my horizons in that I would like to experience a relationship/friendship/whatever (not sure if any of those are the correct term) in which there are no judgments, no recriminations, only open minded acceptance of alternative lifestyles and activities. To be able to explore some, if not all those with someone and/or a few someones...haha ~ ~~~Update: I have tried this site for over 2 yrs and have meet some great people and made a couple friends, but....I have found that My interests & tastes are running in a different direction and "good ol fashion fucking", for the most part, just does not do it for Me anymore ~ ~ There are some exceptions to this and I am still interested in "vanilla", just not all the time and only with certain individuals ~ As for what I am looking for in potential playmates/pets, I prefer an alpha attitude to the outside world and a submissive toward Me(of course), intelligence, sense of humor, willingness to explore new activities, as well as basic compatibility ~ I find that the BDSM/Fetish/Kinkster community more My kind of people, having joined a couple clubs, I have meet some really great people and am looking forward to exploring all that lifestyle has to offer ~ So if this is something that interests you, intrigues you....do not hesitate to contact Me :D ~ ~ I travel alot for my job as a technical trainer, so if you live in another city, do not hesitate to contact me ~ 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contact me only if you are single, divorced or widowed, in other words if you are not any type of relationship at this time! (This does not apply to couples if your partner knows, is aware and/or is present to play or watch) ~ One of my biggest pet peeves are cheaters, of any kind, that means chatting as well ~ Not one of the above, please move on....Thanks for your understanding in this matter, so if you contact me and don't get a response, you did not read my profile....your bad ~ ~ Update: I realized that some people don't even bother to read the profile anyway, because I am getting winks and emails from attached, married and or separated individuals...and yes, I am adding another disclaimer ~ I am not looking for random sex or hookups with someone I don't know well, but rather encounters with people that through communicating, we have established a connection and are ready to take the next step....now with that being said, there is something to be said for the occasional exciting encounter with a new friend, that may or may not lead to something more...just saying, I travel alot & like to be entertained when out of town... ~ ~ If you have winked, emailed, hot-listed, whatever... at or to me and I have viewed your profile and do not respond back, I am not interested, I do not want to waste your time or mine ~ ~ Ok everyone, I know this is an adult site, but a little decorum and common courtesy are a must! ~ Be polite, send a pic of your face if you do not have one as your primary pic. I want to see your face before your naughty bits ;) ~ ~ I am not looking to get married, shack-up or otherwise jump into any LTR, but rather find someone with some of the same interests in and out of the bedroom (kitchen, bathroom, patio, hallway...you get the point :P) ~ If I do meet someone and we decide that things are progressing nicely, I am open to something more long term... ~ ~ If you got this far, thanks! If you are interested still, drop me a line.... I might just be the best thing you have done for yourself in a long time... ~

My Ideal Person ----///-\\\ ----Put This
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Thank You!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Rob Thomas, Matchbox Twenty, Nickleback, Lincoln Park,
Joss Stone, Blue October, Motley Crue

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Vampire fantasies, I have always liked men with pronounced
canines. The thought of being bitten, during sex, is a turn
on (hey, I am a Scorpio and my fave holiday is Halloween)
Ask to see my tattoos.....

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Nick Cage....in Face Off, Ghost Rider,
Valley Girl (yeah I was in lust with him way back when) something
about him just does it for me!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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