Well first off, I'm a hotwife, which means I'm married (happily). My husband knows and encourages my promiscuous behaviour. He loves it. (Our couples profile is [member willudomywife]). I basically have a no-strings-attached “hall pass” to do whatever I please. So I'm looking to have some sexy fun times with single guys, single ladies, couples, and possibly a group-type scenario, on occasion.

My Ideal Person Rather than an ideal person, I’m looking for ideal scenarios. Or maybe more like fantasies I'd like to fulfill.

Before I get to those, i do have some requirements:

First, I must send pictures and/or video of my encounters to my husband. I will respect your right or desire to not have your face on camera, but if you're not comfortable with snapping some pics or taking short videos of us having fun together, then we're not a good fit.

Second, you have to be able to host. Hotels can be fun but they’re not conducive to regular play which is what I’m after.

Lastly, if you message me: 1) confirm you can host, and 2) give me a general idea of where in the city you live. For example, I'm in South Edmonton so the closer the better.

SINGLE GUYS:

I’m on a mission to find a regular fuck buddy with a kinky streak. The ideal candidate lives near South Edmonton Common or Millwoods so you're close by. I'd love to be able to shoot you a message and tell you I'm going to be out shopping or running errands later that afternoon and be able to stop by for a quick round of naked fun while I'm out. Or maybe a late evening visit after my husband has gone to bed. After a few minutes of small talk and catching up we'd be peeling each other's clothes off for a steamy fuck session. Afterwards, it would be a couple minutes of pillow talk and quick smooch and I'd be on my way until the next time. Bonus points if you lean on the dominant/aggressive side - I love being manhandled.

I'm pretty picky when it comes to single guys. I like bigger/muscular men. You don't have to be a gym rat so long as you take care of yourself and you manscape (you MUST manscape). I don’t really care about age so long as you’re mature and respectful. Ideally, you work regular hours that we can coordinate around. And you MUST be able to host and not at a hotel.

Also, I really, REALLY want to fuck a well-hung guy. I mean a guy who is like a solid 8-9 inches and THICK. I want to feel FULL and STRETCHED. BBC or BWC, it doesn't matter. If you regularly worry that you’re going to damage woman’s goods with your tool, call me. LOL. Seriously though, this is a big, big desire for me right now.

COUPLES:

Are you looking for a unicorn? I’m your girl!

I'd love to be your naughty play toy. Take me home and have your wicked way with me. I like pleasuring men and women equally so stick me in the middle and let's have some fun.

I love just being taken and used by a couple. Invite me into your home and then strip me bare and use me for your pleasure. Toss me around and put me into any position you desire. I'm eager to please and you won't be disappointed.

I also fantasize about having a woman film me with her man. She's the director and she's popping in and getting those sexy close-ups of the action and talking to us throughout the experience. And she also talks directly to my husband in the video now and then, teasing him about her man fucking me and pleasuring me. He likes being teased, so the more she can get into it and help me keep it saucy, the better!

SINGLE LADIES:

While I only have experience with women in a threesome or couple swap type scenario, those experiences were a lot of fun and I'd like to explore this some more.

I'd love to find a girlfriend that would like to spend some time together both in and out of the bedroom. I'd love to meet up for coffee or tea. Or go catch a movie together. Or even go out dancing. I picture us having some drinks, getting down on the dance floor, and teasing the boys together. And then at the end of the night, we could go back to your place and have some naked fun together.

I'd really love to find a fellow hotwife to hang out with. Take the club scenario above and instead of us teasing the boys, we go home with the boys? Or maybe the two of us go home with one boy? I could see the two of us playing off each other and doing some thrilling and naughty things together. There are lots of possibilities here and I find them really hot to think about.

My biggest fantasy? Of all of the sexual fun I've shared with my husband, the one thing that we still haven't done together is have an FMF threesome. We haven't found our own unicorn yet. With all the freedom my husband has given me, I'd really love to give him the one fantasy he still hasn't experienced. So this is a big one for me. Hopefully one day I will find my unicorn.

GROUP SCENARIOS:

I recently experienced my first sex party and I had an absolute blast. Outside of that and playing with another couple with my husband a few times, my experience is limited. But I do have some fantasies here.

I really want to have an MFM threesome with a couple guys where one of them ISN’T my husband. I’d love to share some photos and videos of it with him. Have a friend that's willing to have a hot time with us? Let's chat!

I'd like to experience a gangbang. I'd love to be the centre of attention with a group of three or more guys. I find the idea of being cummed on (or in) by multiple guys seriously hot. ...\8 I’ve been tempted to check out some of the local swing clubs but I’ve never actually gone.

Are you thinking of messaging me?

Please, please, please put in some effort here! Here are some tips:

Catch my attention by standing out. Share a random fun fact with me. Make me laugh. Humour is the ultimate icebreaker. "Hey there" or "I'm down" is the typical message I get and I just click delete. The effort you put into getting my attention online is an indication to me of the effort you're willing to put in offline.

Tell me whereabouts in the city you live. I live near South Edmonton Common. The closer you are, the better. That's not to say I won't travel to the Northside for the right person, but less time spent commuting means more opportunities and time to spend hanging out together.

Please confirm that you can host. If you don't it will be one of the first things I ask you. You don't want to waste your time, and I don't want to waste mine either. I can’t host so if you can’t either, we’re not a match.

Lastly... If you're applying for the "well-hung single male" position, send proof! Lol

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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