I have been with people I thought I would hate... I have hated people I thought I would love... I am looking for that spark... that twinkle in ones eye... that funny little smile you get when you realize something or someone is pretty cool. It doesn't limit itself to color... or size... or even their sex. If someone turns you on... they turn you on and there's not much you can do about it... that is if you are open enough to allow that. Attraction is a funky thing... someone may be great in bed, but the last thing you want to do is have a conversation with them... and on the other hand a good conversation can be just as sexy and satisfying as a great fuck... I like beautiful THINGS... sunsets, architecture, music, food, places, people, art... I like to be excited about something... I like erotic situations. Catching a woman eye and noticing her nipple get hard... I notice sexy and beauty PEOPLE, both men and women. and anyone that says they don't, are just lying to themselves. I have had memorable sexual experience with both women and men... Do I prefer one over the other? Probably... does it limit my choices? No...!

My Ideal Person Intelligent, sexy, ambitious, creative, open minded.

If married... It's better if your wife knows, but I am learning most wives don't.
I would be into playing in front of her if she was into it.