Reserved. Introspective. But with a wild side under the surface. Hoping to travel more if the virus ever goes away. I am married, but in a sexually open relationship. My husband prefers to meet guys I am interested in at a coffee shop or something for safety reasons. Just a friendly chat. Again though, with Covid, this would be down the line. Here's hoping for a safe vaccine! I have been getting a lot of emails with a similar question--what are you looking for? First and foremost, I am not looking to get together right away. This would be the case even without Covid. However, Covid will certainly extend the time before I will feel comfortable meeting someone in person. I want to get to know someone on here first. Then maybe move to giving someone my personal contact info. So if you are looking for a quick hookup or one nighter, I'm not for you. There really isn't a website for the Lady Chatterly's Lover situation I'm in, lol. The more serious dating sites are certainly out because I am married. Here fits in that I'm looking for something sexual down the line. Nonetheless, friendship or romance would need to come first. I get that many men see this as a hookup site. For some it is and that's fine. But for me, I'm going to hold out for a bit more. Something in between dating and a fuck buddy perhaps? I hope this clears up some questions everyone seems to have and let's you know if you should contact me or move on. That said, friendship is always welcomed! :) As for my kinky side, which I have also been asked--I am submissive, but not a slave. Submission has to be earned through trust as some of the stuff done in bdsm requires much more trust than a typical sexual relationship. No scat or urine play. Nothing that causes permanent harm. Otherwise, I'm open to discussing things and can reveal my own kinks later. One reason that I chose to come on here instead of ALT is that I am not into strict bdsm roles. I wouldn't want to be submissive outside the bedroom, for example.

Mijn Ideale Persoon: My ideal age would be close to my own. My husband is significantly older and I have learned from experience, while age may not matter at first, it could come to be a factor down the line. My husband's lack of a sex drive is what has led us to come to an agreement that I can seek a lover. So, not too young, around 30, and not over 50 or so would be best. The person matters more than the age, but as I have been contacted by several older men, I did want to put this out there. I hope no one takes offense.

Patience is a must--especially due to Covid. At first, I am seeking to get to know guys on here as in an online only/phone/email only relationship. Eventually, and only with the right person, I am seeking an old fashioned lover with a kinky side. Must love animals. No hunters please. Must be kind, laid back, open, understanding...in other words a good person and not an a hole, lol. Seriously though, it is hard to judge someone on here. Good communication will be important. (Please don't write me with only one or two words, especially if your profile is the same.) I realize you may want to know about me, but I need to know about you too. A creative mind with the ability to fantasize and a sense of humor helps too.

Welke seksuele activiteiten winden u op?:
Orale seks geven, Orale seks ontvangen, Anale seks, Sadomasochisme, Speeltjes (Vibrators/Dildo's/enz.), Fetisjen, Lichte bondage, Harde bondage, Kaarsvet, Rollenspelen, Trio's, Slaaf/Meester, Spelen met etenswaren, "Thuisfilmpjes" maken, Deelnemen aan erotische fotografie, Voyeurisme, Handboeien/schakels, Borst- en tepelmarteling, klemmen, enz., Blinddoeken, Leer, Latex, Vuistneuken, Massage, Ask you are into something else

Welke factoren zijn het belangrijkst wanneer u op zoek bent naar een seksuele partner?:
Fysieke aantrekkingskracht, Dezelfde/soortgelijke fetisjen, Openstaan voor een trio en/of orgie, Libido, Bereidheid om openlijk alles te bespreken en te proberen, Creativiteits-/Kinkniveau

Heeft u ooit cyberseks gehad?:
Ik heb het geprobeerd, maar het is gewoon niet hetzelfde.

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