Not a paid member anymore. Well I am 6ft tall mixed race ( my mum is from Kingston Jamaica & my dad was from Dublin Ireland) I was born & raised in Liverpool but have travelled extensively particularly with my profession but lived in Holland for 5 years also Espana & Belgie for short periods. I am happily divorced over 14 years & been single these past 8 ( to look after my now 20 yr old who came to live with me permanently when she was 10 ). I live in my own house have a good life if it is hard working at the moment but now that my had left for university it's time for me to get out there again. Despite appearances I don't smoke anything & because of my job I don't drink. I have a Prince Albert piercing & also my tongue is pierced. If you need to know more just ask I am a happy humourous per who is always smiling I try to look after my health & am a vegan ( but ice cream can be my downfall ) Howard NO ONE GROM AFRICA ( GHANA NIGERIA ETC ETC )