MOST IMPORTANTLY At least 50% of the people on AFF say they will respond, arrive or make some sort of promise and then break them. If you are one of those, please don't message us. We are looking for responsible playmates. Also, be clean, kind and respectful. Please don't be timid. Please don't send friend requests or hotlist us unless we have chatted. All of those seem to be ways of saying, "We are interested, but not really." Contact us and let's see what happens. Don't hesitate. Time is quickly passing. Take a chance. We REALLY love sensual massages. We have a professional massage table set up in front of a large fireplace. Each person receives 15-20 minutes of attention from many hands, gently caressing every inch of the body, from head to feet and all in between. So if you are a stressed out woman who wants an erotic experience, please join us for a relaxing and sensual afternoon or evening. Couples are welcome as well. VOYEUR SEX WITH COUPLES We also just enjoy being with couples who want to watch and be watched. BISEXUAL OR BI-CURIOUS FEMALES A PRIORITY Near the top of our list right now is to find a bisexual or bi-curious female who is single or part of a couple to play with my wife. She has some experience with a woman, but is looking for a more intimate encounter. The guys will watch, and join in later. STRAIGHT COUPLES & SINGLE FEMALES Straight couples and single females are ALWAYS welcome to join us. We can enjoy straight sex for a strictly straight couple. However, we especially enjoy couples where the female is bi-sexual or bi-curious, and the male is heteroflexible or bi-curious. What is hetero-flexible? Glad you asked. WHAT IS HETERO-FLEXIBLE? Hetero-flexible means that we are both PRIMARILY heterosexual. She adores sexy men, and he adores sexy women. However, there are times we also enjoy unlimited mutual touching in an MFM, FMF threesome or FMFM foursome. Flexibility means we enjoy everyone feeling free to caress and stimulate one another as each is comfortable. However, neither of us is into the men kissing, hugging or penetrating each other. Most importantly, we are ALWAYS respectful of your sexual comfort rules, and expect the same in return. ALL AGES SINGLE GUYS ARE WELCOME TO CONTAC US, ESPECIALLY AGES 18-35 Tell us a bit about why we should choose you out of the plethora of gentlemen on this site. Also, while your erect cock pics are very welcome, please provide some body and face pics on your site or in your message to us as well. We want to know a bit about who you are as a person and what you offer that is unique from all of the other single guys. What is your personality type? What field of work are you in? What is your criminal record? =) You get the point. ABOUT US We are in reasonably good shape. The husband lifts weights and we both walk, hike and stay active. She is in amazing shape, stunningly beautiful and has a gorgeous bubble ass. We are looking for people who are also in decent shape--not perfect by any means, but more or less fit and not grossly overweight. We are very easy to talk with, respectful, spiritually oriented, educated, fun and very secure in our marriage. We are experienced with swapping and playful sex with others. However, we are not professional "swingers" in the sense that this is our full time vocation or lifestyle; but we do enjoy having leisurely and passionate sex with other like-minded people. We do not smoke, and do not like the smell of smoke. He doesn't drink alcohol, she may sip a glass of wine and we are not into drunken or drugged sex. If you like to get inebriated or loaded before having sex, we are not for you.

My Ideal Person Our ideal person/s are CLEAN, fun, unselfish and above all else, RESPECTFUL. We really enjoy sensual exploration and spontaneous sex with everyone included in the play. We don't just jump into screwing without foreplay and sometimes role playing. We enjoy getting acquainted, and really like smart and sexy conversation. We also love lots of sensual touching and caressing . Gradually building up the desire of each person is a huge part of the fun.

We are not looking for best friends; but maybe the ideal sister wife or soul-couple to join us regularly =). Becoming close friends could happen, and we welcome the possibility of repeat playtimes. We have fantasized about a camping trip or mini vacation with a thoroughly compatible couple. But our lives are full and the sex is mainly recreational playtime.

Please, no excessive drinkers or druggers. Social drinking is fine, but we're not into unconscious sex. If you smoke, we do not want to smell it at all, please.

Finally, don't be timid. Contact us and let's see what happens. Don't hesitate.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Pink Floyd, Enya

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
We have enjoyed many fantasies--with our words an at times
with another person. I once blindfolded her and secretly
had another guy slip into the room, and change places with
me. She eventually realized that she had two cocks and was
very very happy with the surprise guest.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

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