We are very much in love and don't plan on changing that. We both want to add friends or lovers to our relationship. Neither one of us smoke and only drink on occasion. We are both d and d and expect the same. Looking for possible long term relationships but not a deal breaker otherwise. I am a happy individual. Typical mid 50's body (cuddly bear). Nothing out of the ordinary except I really like to laugh and have a good time. For me it is not so much about the physical but more about the mental state of mind. I want someone (or someones) that truly enjoy life for what it is, hardships, good times, learning moments and embarrassing ones. Remember, no one gets out of here alive. She is also a happy individual. She is my little angel. I strive to make her happy as much as possible. (most of the time I get close) She is also a more mental than physical person. She has a lot more experience in the BDSM lifestyle than I do but I am trying to keep up.

My Ideal Person We are looking for a person or persons that want a friendship or long term relationship. A "go with the flow" kind of person. Physical is not as important as attitude and mental stability. Life is crazy enough without adding more. The person (s) we are looking for have to have good communication skills. That is a big plus for us.
We are not opposed to short term or one night stands if it feels right but our overall goal is to find a lasting relationship.