I'm quite shy and new to this dating/singles stuff. I have been a widow now for 8 years and was with my husband for 17 years since high school. I guess I thought something different and out of the norm for me might be fun and exciting so why not give it a try? WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.