I'm in central Houston. trained as a classical composer and physicist: my career is in programming and consulting. I love word play and wit, gentle conversations, and read widely. I talk a lot (like this profile). I love people. Do you like Beethoven or Beatles, Tolkien or TS Eliot, gaming or gardening, kink or kitsch? Home cooking? Bridge? I'm nerdy. I grew up on a farm, and know my way with animals and pets, but call the handyman for home repair (I like expertise). I Iove traditional dates like zoo, dining, quirky shops, cooking together, sharing interests, steamy hookups and quirky bars and coffee shops. It's hard to find kink + relationship.