I'll be straight with you: I'd like to have hot, fun sex with a confident, good lover. After a particularly unsatisfying last few years with my partner, I got divorced a few months ago. For that rea, I'm not particularly interested in a relationship (though who knows, anything could happen), and I am looking for a satisfying, fun physical relationship. I know lots of people in this town, and am shy about photos that will disclose that I'm a legendary star of stage and screen, but if you send me one, I'll do the same for you. Here's a little bit more about me: 1. I'm not a waif--it's kinda hard to be one when you're this tall. 2. Full disclosure: I've always been height/weight proportionate. An injury caused me to gain a little weight last year, but since getting healthy, I've been working out daily and am actively losing the remaining 15 pounds. I'll get back to where I was. I've never "let myself go" and I've never been frumpy or a string bean. I do yoga and like how I look, even if right now my weight (and my midsection) is a few pounds above where I'd like to be. 3. Sex with an attentive, confident man is one of my favorite things in the world. I'm not interested in the kind of shag where you wake up alone in the morning. I'm too old for that (the waking up alone part, I mean). I want a positive, fun, generous experience where we both know what we want, know how to get it, and aren't into drama. We get off on making each other feel good, and we're able to relax and enjoy our own experience as well. Witty banter and a cozy breakfast the next morning are a plus.

My Ideal Person Let's not waste each other's time. Here's what I'm looking for:

1. I'm a well-educated professional. While it's not required you be the same, it surely helps.
2. You absolutely must be smart. Brains are a turn-on. One hint: spell check your profile, it's easy.
3. You must be self-confident, especially in bed.
4. You should be single (or can convince me you're in an open relationship, or are a couple responding to my ad). I'm not interested in risking someone else's relationship for my benefit. It's not kind, and it's not my style.
5. I don't mean to stereotype, but if you love Glenn Beck, it doesn't matter how good looking you are, I'll probably not find you hot. You probably won't like my world view, either, so let's just skip it if you're a Fox News guy. Sorry.
6. I haven't yet slept with a woman, but am open to that possibility. All my best friends are women.
7. I'm disease-free (and kid-free!) and am planning on keeping it that way, so condoms are a must.
8. Keep in mind that right now you and I are strangers. I'm all about naughty pictures and conversations eventually, with someone I know. So for potential partners here on fbookhookups.com, I'm sure some like it, but I'm not a fan of photos of your dick. Those images don't tell me much; I want to click with your personality and style, not your junk. What your dick looks like isn't going to seal the deal (or be a dealbreaker), but your style and confidence are. And if I wanted close-up pix of some guy's erect member in some nameless woman, believe me there are plenty of websites out there for that, and they have better lighting, angles and make-up.

Okay, this list is making me seem pretty particular. But why waste time? I'm a do-gooding Democrat in a sea of F-350 Republicans, a cyclist in a world of ATVers, a near-vegetarian in a burger town (and yeah, I do love eating the occasional burger in a classic pickup truck, but you know what I mean). Let's narrow the field. If you think we might be a match, let me know how to reach you.

Once we decide we're into each other, I'm really open minded, I promise. I'm flexible about age and looks, too, though you shouldn't be frumpy or obese (sorry, I'm just not into that).

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

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