Updated 07/01/2023: Happy, fun, easy going, professional couple. Enjoy good food, good wine, good music, and naughty sex. We are discreet, open-minded, respectful, and enjoy a broad range of good wholesome kinks. We are secure in our relationship and our sexuality. Looking for women and non-pushy couples. He has a full-time hall pass. She does not meet solo. She enjoys sharing her man and loves to watch him with others. Will consider men if the attraction, the chemistry, and the mood are right. We prefer to meet over drinks to break the ice. To avoid any pressure, first date hook-up is typically not on the menu. If there is a second date, start slow with same room, watching and being watched, mutual touching, maybe soft swap, possibly progress from there respecting everyone's comfort level in the moment. We are curious why so many profiles show pictures of only the woman, and none of the man. Like I presume most men on this site, I'm open and attracted to a broad range of women. Like most women I've known, mine is only interested in and attracted to a very narrow range of men. She can't know if she wants to correspond without a picture of the guy. Please show or send some. Please understand that our opportunities to play together are extremely limited. If we show an interest in you, and time goes by without meeting or further correspondence, that most likely simply means we have been hijacked by life, and have not been available.

My Ideal Person Primarily looking for women and like-minded couples who are reasonably fit, open minded, respectful, clean, caring, considerate...you know...the usual.

Guys, she is not interested in getting with a string of random men. By all means look and flirt, but this is 'don't call us, we'll call you'. If we flirt, that means we'd like to talk. If we decide to meet, first meet will be with him only to assess compatibility. No, he is not trying to hook up with you. She will not meet a man who has not been pre-screened. Thank you for understanding.

If you are a guy, and your profile is nothing but dick pics, that's not a good look. While it's nice to get a quick look at the equipment, a bunch of dick pics tells us absolutely nothing about you. A picture of you with clothes on does.

The Noes:

Do NOT pretend you are going to make a date, then ghost. Seriously.
NO Doms. That's my job. Period. If the word 'Dom' appears in your profile, we are probably not interested. (Unless you want me to Dom your woman, haha.)
NO, he is not a "cuck." If that's your fantasy, look elsewhere.
NO, she will not meet you alone and "come home to (me) with a cum-filled pussy." If that's your fantasy, look elsewhere.
NO excessive body hair. Sorry. Some chicks dig the hairy dudes. Some don't.
NO excessive facial hair. Sorry. If you look like a hobo, a biker, or someone from the 1800s, that's not going to work for us.
NO 'huge' dicks. For real. Normal dude size is just fine.
NO jerks or narcissists. (We say this even though we know you don't know who you are.) This is 100% about her, making her comfortable, and satisfying her fantasies. You will need to work with me on this.

Thank you.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Too many to list.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No. I like real people.

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